Nicholas Finnegan - Life Innovation

Get Over Negative Peopleâ€™s Opinions And Voices!

2010-10-05T18:50:00.001-07:00

Hello,

I created a short hypnosis session for you. You can use it to get over negative opinions of people and replace those with a new positive voice that empowers you.

Many of us pick up negative voices that prevent us from doing the things that we want to do. It could be a negative voice picked up from parents that says "You can't do it!" whenever you want to achieve something. It could also be your own negative voice that makes you doubt your own abilities.

The fact is that once you re-frame those negative voices into positive voices that benefit you, you will find alot more of your true potential coming out when you need it.

Go here... to download your free hypnosis session now.

I created it especially for you to benefit from. Enjoy! :)

From,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. When listening to your session, it works much better when you find a quite place, where you can lie down and just relax. My voice will condition your mind towards new powerful directions that serve your daily success.

Find Solutions With Positive Thinking!

2010-09-30T12:38:00.001-07:00

Hello,

Someone asked me how they can build optimism within themselves in any situation; so Iâ€™ll share with you my top tip that helps me to do it every single day.

First, you need to realize that we do have problems and the world isnâ€™t a perfect place... things happen and things go wrong... the first key is to accept them and to transform your outlook into something positive that makes you feel good about the situation.

Once you have accepted your negative points of view, what are you going to do about it? Whatâ€™s the next step in your level of thinking? How are you going to view things differently to solve the issue? How many new positive ideas could you discover to free yourself from these problems?

If you have learned a way of thinking about something that hasn't served you, you must learn how to think about it in a new way... To look at your problems with positive thinking to transform them.

For example, A friend of mine spilt something on the floor in my house, she was getting very agitated about it and blew everything out of the ordinary. So I asked her â€˜How could you think about it positively if you were to change your mind about this situation?â€ She said that she could view it as â€œItâ€™s just another spill that is going to be cleaned up!â€.

Now that she has a more positive way of thinking about it, she now has a new idea on how to react when drinks are spilled on the floor.

Positive thinking heightens your thoughts and emotions - it enables you to come up with something better that serves you and the people/situation; So whenever it happens again, you have a new way of responding to it. This allows you to free yourself into a place where positivity flows more easily.

If you have been thinking about something in the same negative way for years, maybe itâ€™s time to heighten your thinking by finding new ways how to look at your problems with positivity to move on.

Think of a problem that you have in your life... once you use this strategy, you will build a positive foundation that serves you in every area of life.

So to put things short, You can become a positive person when you learn how to find solutions in the face of problems.

I am a positive person because I have thought about enough solutions that allow me to have positive ideas that serve me when I need them.

Positive thinking means to practice finding solutions to problems that continuously serve you to the point where positivity is all you have available. In other words, you build a positive foundation, with the more solutions that you find.

Find positivity in everything you do to improve the quality of your life everyday. And remember, you can pick and choose how you want to think about things.

From,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Failure Completely Destroys Your Results Of Success!

2010-09-28T02:50:00.001-07:00

Hello,

I received an email today from a client who said that everytime he is on the journey to make life better, something always goes wrong and he cannot take it anymore. He said that he feels like giving up and feels like he will never achieve his goals.

Listen...

If you are going to make the decision to improve your life, you must also commit yourself to not let any obstacle get in the way as you move forwards. Many of us make decisions that will improve our lives, but as soon as something bad happens, we complain and we stop doing what is positive to achieve our goals.

You will experience times of doubt on your journey, it is inevitable. Nothing goes completely smooth when you learn to do something new, it only becomes smoother when you start to get better at doing it.

This could boil down to building your confidence, your happiness or a better relationship...

When you are moving towards the pursuit of your goals something wonâ€™t work out the way you expected it to: You will fall on your gluteus-maximus and you will have other problems that make you think â€˜is this really worth it?!

Well let me tell you something... it is worth it. You will experience times of doubt, but the most important thing you need to know is that these times of doubt will only be short lived... you will only feel bad for a few hours (or for a few minutes) then once itâ€™s all over you still have your whole life ahead of you.

The key is to not let these short lived failures determine where you are ultimately heading towards in your life. Your successâ€™ will last much longer and will feel 1000 times better than any of your failures, most of all, your success lasts forever and become a part of your positive memories.

Never sacrifice your achievements for the sake of a failure. Remind yourself of all your successâ€™ and allow that to justify who you are becoming instead... Life is a journey, not a one way ticket. Things that matter most should never be at the mercy of things which matter least.

Always make your successâ€™ bigger than your failures!

With full commitment and self belief behind you, you will stay on the right path of success no matter what goes wrong, you will learn, become wiser and achieve your future results.

From,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Take Responsibility For Your Success!

2010-09-24T18:57:00.001-07:00

Hello,

I received some emails from a few clients who feel like they are not being supported by parents or peers; that they feel like they never receive the love they deserve and feel like that lifeâ€™s a big struggle

If we lack self love or any other emotion, the first thing we usually do is look to other people to get it or blame other people for not having it.

For example if we don't feel self love, we blame our parents for not loving us enough, if we don't feel successful, we rely on other people to carry us through to create our success. The key to owning these emotions and attitudes for yourself, is to build them within yourself without relying on other people at all.

So if you want confidence instead of looking outside of yourself, look inside of yourself and discover new ways how you can feel more confident and raise your self esteem. At least this way you'll always win - because you hold the responsibility of your success, without relying on other people's if's or but's. Rather, do it for YOURSELF, it's in your own personal responsibility!

The very moment you become responsible for something, you own it! Become responsible for the quality of your life... become responsible for your self love, become responsible for your happiness, become responsible for your business! Become responsible for your own life!

From,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Your Negative Past Is Important To You?

2010-09-23T16:53:00.001-07:00

Hello,

Today I would like to share with you more information on how you can get over negative past experiences.

Probably the most important step of all for you to move on, is to learn from your negative past experiences. Every experience that you have been through in your life carries a life lesson that will allow you to become more than who you are today.

Most people who canâ€™t move on from the past think of all the negative misfortunes they have been through and it causes a stumbling block on their potential.

They may blame themselves, they may other blame people or on some level may think their life could be over.

Instead, if you ask yourself questions that help you to find solutions to past problems, you will validate your potentials, not only will you do that, but you will also learn positive ways to move on from the past and create a happier life.

There is alot of wisdom and growth found in your negative past experiences. Finding solutions and life lessons in these experiences will empower to move forwards with a positive frame of mind that serves your growing future success.

To do this ask yourself empowering questions about your past experiences...

Exercise:

1. Think of a negative past experience that has prevented you from becoming successful in a specific area of life...

2. Ask yourself: What is the number one empowering lesson that I can take from this past situation? How can this past problem make me a more positive person?

What life lessons have I come up with that will prevent this problem from ever happening again? How has this past problem enabled me to help people in positive ways? How has my past make me more motivated to change my life for the better?

The fact is that the more you dig and find the gold nuggets in your past problems, the more you will be able to re-frame negative situations into positive solutions that serve you.

In other words, you build a stronger portfolio of positive evidence for yourself as to why you can be positive despite what you have been through in your past.

When you overcome your past problems, you will find something deep inside to truly be proud of about yourself.

That is what overcoming your past negative problems is all about...

From,

Nicholas Finnegan

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2010-09-21T18:41:00.001-07:00

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Clear Mind, Clear Cut Goals! Free Download!

2009-09-11T09:04:00.000-07:00

Hello friends,

Below is a FREE ebook and audio mp3 with tools which allow you to become clear on your goals to create success like you ought to!

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Use Failure As Your Opportunity To Learn!

2009-09-09T11:16:00.000-07:00

Hello friends,

Below is a FREE ebook and audio with tools you can use to help you learn from failure to gain greater success right now.

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. For More FREE Success Audio's and Ebooks Go Here...

I Was Depressed and Dissatisfied!

2009-09-08T08:23:00.000-07:00

Hello,

I have to admit.... I usually don't get depressed, but last night I felt like garbage!

Yesterday I was lying on my bed thinking about my life and to be honest with you.... I felt dissatisfied.

I know there is much more that I could be experiencing right now. There are so many new adventures to take, so many opportunities and so many new experiences.

Dissatisfaction is not all that bad!

The only time when people tend to change their lives are when they are dissatisfied with it.

I'm writing this message to tell you that I also tend to get stressed or think negatively at times, I am definitely not perfect.

Sometimes depression and dissatisfaction can be our best friends though...

When you are depressed it means that you really want more, your mind is telling you "Hey, you are worth so much more than what your displaying right now!"

If you are depressed or dissatisfied, USE IT to improve your life at a higher level, because you deserve it!

The quality of your life can grow as long as you invest in it's growth!

Your dissatisfaction and/or depression is an abundant indication that you deserve more.

Don't let it stop you, use it to justify that you are worth more than how your living right now and use it to become stronger.

It's in your lowest points in life where you tend to find your biggest motivations and your biggest discoveries to change.

So what did I do last night? I made some new decisions.

I decided to put my time and focus into things that are more healthy. My business and my personal enjoyment; my fitness and my knowledge. I'm reading more often and jogging every morning to become more healthy and increase my abundance.

What are two new decisions you can make right now to improve the quality of your daily life?

Commit to two new decisions and promise yourself to improve these areas of life daily, step by step, little by little - everyday... until you start to see daily results.

I want you to become more smarter and more successful than I am.

A very good speaker wants to inspire you to become better than he/she is...

Share your amazing progress.

Send me your email's and comments on my blog and let me know how your doing...

I look forward to hearing of your life experiences.

All the very best,

Nicholas Finnegan.

P.S. I received some great feedback about the last download. I am thinking of creating a 6 part down-loadable course for you. Would you be interested? Let me know what you think...

I will start to devise a plan where I can offer free down-loadable material once a week. Leave your comments and share your ideas. Peace and Love.

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Hypnotic Beliefs!

2009-09-05T07:48:00.000-07:00

Hello friends,

Below is a FREE ebook and audio with tools you can use to help build stronger positive beliefs as soon as possible.

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. For More FREE Success Audio's and Ebooks Go Here...

Never Give Up, Never Back Down!

2009-09-03T07:30:00.000-07:00

Hello friends,

The difference between giving up on yourself and creating success is that you would assume your going to fail, instead of thinking in terms of the possibility to create more success.

You must alter your attitude towards your daily life slightly...

You must begin to focus on the creation of positive foundations in your life now... even if it used to feel hard in the past. Do Not give up on yourself EVER, because this moment you have a fresh new opportunity to make things better in your life!

Here's a mark of success in life...

Your attitude towards life, whether if it's a positive attitude, or a negative attitude, is going to determine HOW you think about things...

For example: if you wear beer goggles you'll see life in a dysfunctional way... but if you wear clear expensive glasses you'll see life in a positive light.

Your positive attitude will set a stream of new ideas if you continue to invest in that!

Remember: whatever you invest in becomes a daily habit, so if you use a positive attitude and from that perspective, invest in the positive things you want, you'll find yourself beginning to create much better results.

If you continue to invest in your future desires with a positive attitude that serves you... you'll begin to feel better about yourself and your future.

Let me tell you something...

The more blocks you overcome in your life... the more of a powerful person you will become.

Success is a result of taking action... by taking action and overcoming current obstacles, you achieve and constantly grow to become a greater success in life!!

If you really want more of the success you desire, make a decision to do something about it... the more you invest in this success... the more you'll begin to realize that success comes from making decisions to continuously build the quality of life you want by taking action everyday!

Go Do It For Yourself With A Chance for happiness and use your courage like a tiger to create future abundance!

To your success,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism Is Now LIVE!

2009-08-31T13:11:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism is now LIVE!

Remember: The first 10 people who order in the next 24 hours receive a FREE special bonus!

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Finally you can enhance your sexual magnetic energies to attract the women you desire...

Many of my clients have expressed great anticipation for this latest product! Get ready to unleash your Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism!

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism Launches In The Next 2 Hours...!

2009-08-31T10:15:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Yes you heard right; Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism Launches 2 hours from now!

Grab yours as soon as it launches...

Also, check out the special offer that is only available for the first 10 people who order in the next 24 hours.

Look out for the order page...

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

Sexual Magnetic Energy Revealed...

2009-08-30T01:58:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Women are very sensitive to energy; This means they pick up on your vibe as a man pretty much automatically...

You could say that this is all part of 'female intuition!'

Men on the other hand, take some time to tune into women before they start to grasp what is really going on with them...

To become sexually magnetic, you must learn to increase your sexual energy!

This means the energy that women tend to be in tune with...

For example, many men vibrate different energy; They vibrate playful energy, needy energy, sexual energy, attractive energy etc...

Believe it or not, women are intuitively aware of this energy.

If you are a needy person... you will project needy energy and women will pick up on it (even if your not aware of it), no matter what you say or do, your energy will always be the defining factor of how women see you.

This means if you can feel secure in sexual magnetic energy, women will begin to pick up on it, on a subconscious level and feel attracted to you, 'without you even trying to impress her'.

Depending on what beliefs you project and radiate, will determine how well woman will respond to you...

In other words, your vitality and morale will over rule your words and your actions, your energy is more powerful and sets you up for success on all levels of your communication.

Have you ever experienced a time when you were friends with a girl and she fell for you without you even trying to seduce her?

This is because your not trying to impress her, but your energy tends to win over the women on it's own.

You don't need to learn chat up lines, skills or dating tips... you just need to increase your sexual magnetism and everything else will represent you greatly from this place of sexual power.

That's why it's possible for women to fall in love with unattractive men, 'there's just something about them' that goes beyond the physical appearance.

By increasing your sexual magnetism, you'll become a sexual magnet to the point where women start to tune into your attractive energy on a unconscious level.

Women will feel attracted, magnetised and enjoy your company and they won't consciously know why, they'll just pick up on it based on their female intuition because you radiate it from the inside without overtly displaying it.

Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism increases your sexual desirability and locks it into place with stronger self belief!

This is why 'Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism' increases your confidence and your ability to attract the beautiful women you desire!

You become a source of sexual magnetism that women can connect with easily without trying to impress her with surface structures behaviours.

This is how you attract beautiful women Instantaneously.. With 'Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism' you will not only feel attractive, but women will also feel attractive towards you based on magnifying your sexual magnetism.

This means you view women from a place of sexual flexibility and power!

This is called sexual magnetism... an effortless magnetic personality.

Women will feel attracted, magnetised and enjoy your company and they won't consciously know why, they'll just pick up on it based on their female intuition because you radiate it from the inside.

Be ready to release your sexual magnetism on 31st, August... this Monday.

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Unleash 'Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism' Today.....!

2009-08-23T01:39:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Now, I receive many emails from men asking me about confidence with women.

Well here's the key to being more successful with women....

Your Level Of Desirability!

The more you believe you are desirable as a man, the easier it is to talk to women, engage them and close them because you start to approach women with the belief that you are just as, if not, more so attractive than they are!

Attractive women know they are attractive and this adds to their level of confidence, social skills and magnetism.

By building powerful beliefs that conjure up energies within you, that allow you to believe you are more attractive than the most beautiful woman you have ever met, will allow you to diminish fear, open up new levels of charm, charisma and help you to exude magnetic energies that are appealing to beautiful women.

Here's a FREE sample of the I.S.M program:

There are some very powerful techniques embedded into this program for you to enhance important levels of your masculine magnetism... I will explain more about these in the next email...

Until then, make sure you sign up to the 'Instantaneous Sexual Magnetism' email list here... so you can receive your special offer when it launches next week...

Now, get ready for your sexual magnetic success with beautiful women on every level of your being.

Stay tuned...

From,

Nicholas Finnegan

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You Have Abundant Resources Inside Of You Right Now!

2009-08-10T12:34:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Let's talk about your abundance!

Listen: There are trillions of resources inside of you that allow you to feel good about yourself anytime you desire.

Take a moment to consider this for yourself - you have the ability to think, feel, choose, create, experience, increase, magnify and so much more...

Do you remember what it's like to experience pleasure? satisfaction? happiness? arousal?

You have access to these emotions and they are at your constant disposal anytime you want; Realize that you can feel good as much as you allow yourself to wonder on these kinds of emotions you want to experience for yourself and others...

Take a moment to decide for yourself - what you want to focus on...

What makes you feel good? What do you like to do? Do you have any hobbies you enjoy? Can you discover more ways to have fun and enjoy your life?

The whole idea is to replace your negative emotions with new emotions that allow you to feel good about yourself... the fact is, you are in control!

You can extend the positive emotions you currently feel right now, in other areas of your life...

For example, if you feel happy when listening to music... what other things can you do to create these same feelings of happiness in other areas of your life too?

This allows you to transfer the ease of possibility from feeling good in one area - to another...

This choice is also at your constant disposal...

It isn't that you need something to happen from somewhere else before you can start to feel good about yourself; It's about learning to feel good about yourself based on your own identity and what you choose to create...

Literally, you can start utilising your own abundant resources as a human being right now!

Anything anybody else has been able to achieve, you can also achieve too ... you have the same resources and you have the same nervous system!

The question is, what are you going to do with this possibility? Are you going to use it to make yourself feel good - or are you going to complain about why your life isn't the way you want it to be...

You are a very capable person and you have alot going for you... so expand on this fact and grow to feel more capable about yourself as a person!

Allow yourself to realize that you have the power of possibility and awareness...

You Can Do It! Believe In Yourself And Achieve Your Future Desires NOW!

Yours Sincerely,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Start Listening... It's Very Important!‏

2009-08-08T06:34:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Let's talk about what good listening skills are...

Okay, so listening is taking in information through the ears, hearing the message, clarifying the said message, relaying a response to this message or adding to it, which in turn leads into good conversation.

So why is this important?

It is VERY obviousness that listening = friendship, knowledge and lovingness from everyone.

It is good for many interactions, debates and building understanding,... in business, friendships etc.

How do I personally do it?

I just studied being quiet, not jumping from my first thought, hearing the person, processing what they said and making an answer, rather then jumping the gun to speak before even understanding their point.

If you are defensive, weak minded or don't listen... you'll not only 'miss' valuable information, but you won't learn anything new that cold increase you.

Remember:

Always be willing to consider the possibility that you could be wrong.

That's why listening, is just as an important skill as talking/speaking: If not more important!

Start listening!

From Nicholas

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3 Types Of Men?

2009-08-06T06:33:00.000-07:00

Hello,

There are genuinely 3 types of men.. find out which one you are by watching this video...

Are you the Nice Guy? The Bad Guy Or The Good Guy??

Kezia explains all 3 types of guys and their individual influence on the types of women they attract...

Press Play Below...

The most seductive guy you want to be is the good guy. This is the type of guy who has standards, who isn't afraid to say no and who is secure when finding emotionally healthy women.

Hope you enjoyed this video... I did ! :)

More info about sexual magnetism soon.

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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How To Stop Relying On Others To Feel Powerful!

2009-07-31T01:03:00.000-07:00

Hello,

One of the most common problems people have is a lack of self reliance.

A client of mine was in a fabulous relationship, the girl of his dreams, but no matter how good things were, he was scared about losing her.

He admitted that the issues were all to do with him, he also pointed out that he was clingy.

He would tear himself to pieces inside when his girlfriend was away or when he was alone, he couldn't do anything by himself without her.

This is what I said to him:

"The only reason why you feel clingy and have no self belief when your not around her is because you are 'relying' on her to make you feel secure... That's why your clinging onto her, because your clinging onto the emotions that you get 'from her' when your with her."

I find that alot of the time with human interactions and relationships, it's not low self esteem or low self confidence; but it's the fact that your needing to feel something from people 'first' that will help you to get 'you' what you want.

In other words, a lack of self reliance!

For example: maybe you have been in a situation were you need to be around someone to feel secure. Or maybe you want people to verify your ability to feel confident. Or maybe you want people to make you feel happy about yourself 'for you'.

...And then only when they verify it 'for you', then after you can feel good about yourself; But 'if' they are not around, it goes away.

So to own your self belief and success you must stop relying on others to feel these things and instead, learn how to feel them for yourself.

In other words, once you realize that you don't need others to verify your desires for you, and that you can feel whatever you want within yourself all the time (no matter if other people are around or not) then you start to own your right to feel secure and believe in yourself all the time - wherever you go; Because you carry it around with you 'inside' as your own personal resource.

The key is that you gain inner access to these resources any time you want them.

When you stay comfortable in your ability to have choice and flexibility, in any situation, then you give yourself the permission to stay secure, happy and free.

In short, you become free from the 'dependence' of other people to feel confident, because you gain independence in your ability to stay successful within yourself - FOR YOURSELF!

To test this out... Stop for a moment and ask yourself if your waiting for someone to do something, or to tell you something, or to verify something for you, before you can start to feel good about yourself and act confidently..?

If you notice that you are, grab onto your personal responsibility to have more security - that supposed to be yours, and take rightful ownership of it to gain more personal power and independence with it from this moment on.

Sometimes it's not a confidence boost that you need, sometimes it's just about owning your energy and your given right to experience more of your own personal power.

You must NOT need people to feel good, but you must be secure and certain in your ability to be able to feel good because of 'you'!

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Stealth Warrior Is Out Now! Get Yours Here!!

2009-07-24T23:33:00.000-07:00

Hello,

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Nicholas Finnegan

2 Hours Until Launch! The Stealth Warrior FAQ

2009-07-24T13:08:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Stealth Warrior Launches In Two Hours!

Yes Stealth Warrior is finally here and is launching in the next two hours....

Let me take a moment to answer some frequently asked questions about this Stealth Warrior session!

What Is The Difference Between Hypnotic Confidence and Stealth Warrior?

Hypnotic Confidence is geared towards you becoming more charismatic, self confident and a capable person.

Stealth Warrior is geared towards you breaking through obstacles that used to stop you, to enhance your potential and super-charge your passion towards creating greater life success. It goes way beyond confidence and allows you to unlock alpha energy to make you get the BEST out of your daily life!

This is done by integrating some unique beliefs such as:

"You expand on the constant unfolding success you are already feeling each and every day!"

"At any time you can tap into a wealth of resources that are virtually unstoppable"

"Anything that comes up, is coming up to be healed, handled, learned from or released!"

And more cutting edge techniques to get you ahead of the game in every area of life, to resolve any problem and move forward with personal power to create success!

Stealth Warrior enables you to handle challenges, difficult people and allows you to respond and integrate into yourself leadership qualities!

Stealth Warrior is also longer than Hypnotic confidence, which means longer trance and greater positive changes.

Can both Women and Men use this?

YES! Although I described Stealth Warrior as unlocking your 'Alpha Energies' it is designed to unlock your leadership potential and your continuous 'growing' abundance for life success.

It can be used for both men and women as the techniques added in the Stealth Warrior session are universal for both sexes.

You will notice the power for yourself once you order and use this energy enhancing hypnotic session!

What are the unique features of Stealth Warrior?

The added unique features of Stealth Warrior are the added audio track that will allow you to relax even further and deeper into trance. And not that - the techniques and trance words go way beyond anything I have ever designed before... I have been learned alot since Hypnotic Confidence and my knowledge surrounding the human mind, how trance/sounds effects your neurology, NLP techniques and my personal development experience has evolved exponentially!

My latest 'positive binding techniques' are embedded throughout this audio session which will allow to overcome any obstacle with POWER and stream train your life towards achieving abundance and life success!

How long will Stealth Warrior take until I start seeing/noticing positive effects?

You will feel different the very first time you use it, as soon as you finished listening in a relaxed place, you will notice yourself feeling vibrant, stronger and more competent about yourself.

Use Stealth Warrior for up to two weeks and your life will change for the better and your daily positive outlook in life will be enhanced beyond your current reality!

Stealth Warrior Launches in 2 hours from now!

Look out for the email in your inbox.

To Your Life and Powers,

Nicholas Finnegan

Unleash Stealth Warrior Success Energy Tomorrow!!

2009-07-23T18:08:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Ok this is how you live with alpha energy!

I've been saying in the past email that you have to release energy and un-tangle your energy to get greater results out of your life and to move through the world with abundance.

To release your energy you need to take on some new beliefs that will help to stream line your energy and awareness...

These beliefs are as follows:

"You expand on the constant unfolding success you are already feeling each and every day!"

"Anything negative that comes up, is coming up to be healed, handled, learned from or released!"

"You can learn to do anything and learning is fun!"

There are many more in the Stealth Warrior program....

The main idea of these beliefs are to play a continuous active assistance in your personal enhancement - and to resolve your stuck points and restrictions automatically (before they even turn up).

With these beliefs helping you to expand your awareness, your life become more smoother because you stream-line the process of success.

Now when you approach a new situation that could help you succeed, you will do it with a clear mind and with clear intentions.

Your blockages and weaknesses will begin to melt because you have beliefs that pre-suppose you can heal them whenever you want. This allows you to live with more freedom and unlock new realms of joy and passion.

Read the beliefs again... what would it by like if you could walk through the world knowing that you have these beliefs at your constant disposal?!

You may even find that your mind starts expanding as you read them...

The stealth warrior program works with the 'Dual Induction' technology to condition in these (stealth beliefs) and greater habitual processes for constant unfolding success!

After all, Success Is A Daily Process!

By releasing and healing the energies and complications that used to stop this process, this will allow you to get greater consistent results out of yourself on a daily basis; by virtue of the fact that you join in with energy flow and build a frame of mind with enhancing beliefs which can support it!

The Stealth Warrior Program is being launched on the 24/7/2009.

Get Yours On 24/7/2009!

All The Best Success,

Nicholas Finnegan

Get Stealth Warrior For FREE!

2009-07-21T15:04:00.000-07:00

Hello,

As you all know I am launching my revolutionary Stealth Warrior on the 24th of Friday this week!

So to pump up the excitement, and frankly make some big buzz, for the next 3 days I’m giving you the opportunity to receive Stealth Warrior for FREE!

All you have to do is re-tweet this message by pressing the following link:

http://tinyurl.com/ndnvvw

On your status it should show:

@nickfinnegan is giv away 2 FREE Stealth Warrior Programs! http://tinyurl.com/kvfuwp. Enter 2 Win Stealth Warrior! http://tinyurl.com/kvfuwp

You will then be taken to your twitter account to accept your status update!

That’s it! See how easy that was?

Now how do you win?

It's simple! I will click the @nickfinnegnan on my twitter page and whoever has re-tweeted this status, 2 people will be randomly selected by a 7 year old boy (my cousin) to receive their official launch product Stealth Warrior! So get tweeting.

I’m running this competition until Thursday, July 23rd, So make sure you start tweeting.

All the best.

Nicholas Finnegan

New Stealth Warrior Video Is Up Now!

2009-07-18T11:44:00.000-07:00

Hello,

I have just uploaded a new video for you, explaining some of the benefits of Stealth Warrior you will receive once you get yours!

Watch it here:

This video will give you some insight into what Stealth Warrior is and what it will do for you once you have it!

On a side note, Stealth Warrior is for both men and women as it helps both sexes to unlock Alpha energy.

I will reveal more about how Alpha energy works soon, in the mean time, enjoy the video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5m9_ObasyYc

Don't forget to leave comments!

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. Stealth Warrior Is Launching Next Week on the 24/7/2009! Get Yours When It Launches!

Stealth Energy and The Alpha Warrior!

2009-07-17T07:57:00.000-07:00

Hi folks,

The big thing that keeps people from staying secure and composed is self restrictions and hesitancy.

What are they?

They are manifestations of compressed energy that are stuck or held within the body in a way that doesn't help you to move forward.

In other words, if you feel clamped down, unworthy, pitiful or weak - you are actually investing in these emotions and that's why you feel stuck!

These negative investments tend to block you from experiencing feelings of freedom, happiness, joy and abundance!

Blockages cause struggle and cause you to fight with yourself!

Have you ever been in a state of frustration? It may have felt like you were trying to drive forward with something else pulling you back at the same time.

On the other side of the spectrum - you also have been so excited about going on holiday that all your hesitations released and you where expansive in your emotions.

All positive emotions expand, where as negative emotions keep people restricted from experiencing the true potential of what their emotions can fully allow them to experience...

Alpha males and Alpha Females are un-hindered from restrictions.

Energy that continuous to flow and extend is a true display of alpha male and females... they have no restrictions in the possibility and potential they can manifest!

When you learn how to manifest Alpha energy, you'll become smooth within yourself and your life; you'll naturally participate in a constant flow success, with a strong reciliance that diminishes anything that tried to hold you back.

Think of this energy as white smoke testing the aero dynamics of a car... no matter what car you use, the smoke continuous to adapt to whatever shape it needs to gain it's way!

The whole idea is to jump into this stream of resourcefulness and smoothly flow in it's continuous abundance.

Once you change your investments into something positive, you'll use that same investment you were once using to make yourself feel bad, to make yourself feel good instead!

In other words, you'll reap greater rewards out of your life with the exact same energy you were using to make you feel stuck, but this time, you'll learn to use that exact same energy to make yourself feel good!

You Will Redirect Your Negative Energy To Expand It!

Don't waste your energy on blockages anymore! Spend your energy in ways that allow you to feel good!

Time and energy is precious, be careful what directions your investing your energy towards because your spending your energy in directions regardless!

It's the investment within itself, that needs to be re-directed into a better direction, so you spend more time and energy investing in what works from now on....

You'll see exactly how you can use negative energy to refine it into Alpha energy with the Stealth Warrior process ...

Releasing Alpha energy and stealth energy is the core foundation of Stealth Warrior as it shows you to move through the world with finesse and power!

More to come in the next email!

All The Best,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. Go Here To Be Notified When Stealth Warrior Launches and also receive FREE Course Updates!

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Official 'Stealth Warrior' Update!

2009-07-15T09:26:00.000-07:00

Hello my friends,

Yes I know... I haven't written you any mail in about 3 weeks...

I apologize for this... I am not neglecting you, I promise ;)

In fact, the past few weeks have been full of up's and downs. I have been emotional, motivated, lazy, productive and working my butt off all at the same time!

I do have some good news though... I am very pleased and excited to announce that 'Stealth Warrior' is officially complete!!

That's right, after about a month of working on this we have produced a program that will allow you to break free from your limitations like butter, enhance the best of what you already have in your life like a rocket and increase your daily success with power and motivation that knows no bounds!

The Stealth Warrior program will be launching as soon as we have all the information packed together for you!

I am going to be sending you videos, audio's and emails in the next few weeks so be sure to stay updated with the course.

The official launch date will be sent to you in the next few days!

As you look forward to receiving this new product and materials... it's going to be a very life enhancing process.

All the best in your future success!

Yours sincerely,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Stealth Warrior Releasing Soon...

Go Here To Be Notified On The Day Stealth Warrior Is Released!

Start Taking Action To Increase Your Daily Success!

2009-07-05T07:31:00.000-07:00

To go from where you currently are in your life, to where you desire to be in the future, requires that you have goals.

Depending on how big your goals are, will determine how much you grow to feel motivated to achieve them.

Your future is the continuous manifestation of what you are planning to do!

In other words, what you plan today, determines what you are going to do tomorrow!

Your goals must be achievable and reachable; and with this in mind, they must be scheduled in a plan to the point where you conjure up enough emotion inside of you that drives you achieving them!

To start moving things forward with more passion, imagine yourself 5 years from now...

What would you like to achieve? What would you like to manifest for yourself? After you create success, how will you help the people around you?

This requires you to make a 'present' decision, in this very moment - to take action!

Your daily actions are governed by your everyday decisions!

Can you remember a time when you got fed up with something and you decided 'enough was enough' and it pushed you to create success??

Start thinking about what you want to create, and then think about what will happen if you don't create it; what would be the ultimate price if you don't take action?

Will you be poor for the rest of your life? Will you be overweight? Will you never find the relationship of your dreams because you didn't take action?

Get fed up with your life right now (no matter how good it may seem) and decide to raise your standards for yourself, and TAKE ACTION DAILY to improve the quality of your life!

Remember; the word 'decision' in it's original Latin form means to 'cut off from', this means you cut off from any other impossibility of making your dreams REAL!

This all starts with you taking a single step forward!

Have you ever climbed up a ladder? You realize that your goal is to reach the top, and you do this one foot at a time, one step at a time, until you can see the heights of your potential!

You should be excited about each consecutive step you take (no matter how small) because each step determines your ultimate destiny!

If you are a sales man, realize that with each and every knock of a door, there's a new opportunity to close a better deal...

With every sentence you write in a book, creates more chapters that lead up to getting your book published.

With every press up and sit up you do - constantly builds upon more muscle - allowing you to lift heavier weights with greater strength!

Remember: The journey of 1000 miles starts off with a single step! Each small action you take will determine the type of life you are GOING to be living!

The future is what you are pursuing, it is the constant 'unfolding' of actions that your going to take today, and also the actions your going to be taking tomorrow... into the future!

You should be very interested in your future, because you are going to spend the rest of your life there!

Do something today, that will improve the quality of your life tomorrow!

God bless you,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. For your FREE Success Mini-Course Go here... to download today!

P.P.S. To put your goal-setting success on auto-pilot take a look at the Hypnotic Confidence audio session and the Higher Self Esteem and More Personal Enhancement Course.

What You Think - 'IS'!

2009-06-25T11:18:00.000-07:00

What you think - IS!

You must OWN the things that you are doing!

Whatever you think - IS!

In a sense, what 'IS' - is in a constant manifestation, whether if you own it or not!

When you own what 'IS', you are in the (divine) constant manifestation of what you are thinking; so you can create whatever you like! Because what you think - 'IS'!

Say the following sentence with your name:

(Input name) thinks, therefore he/she IS!

All the Best

How To Make The 'Unfamiliar' REAL By Building New Positive Habits!

2009-06-21T10:46:00.000-07:00

Most of us tend do things that are familiar to us. For example, we tend do things that we are 'used' to doing. These are called habits! Habits actually guide our daily life-styles and makes it easier for us to perform day to day tasks.

You habitually brush your teeth after you wake up in the morning and you habitually put your clothes on.

It is very unlikely that your going to wake up tomorrow without brushing your teeth and walk in the middle of the road naked.

Your mind's ability to learn habits and automatically execute them is a very beneficial quality you already possess as a person, because you don't have to re-learn how to do 'common' tasks every-time you encounter them.

However, there are also bad habits that we have which don't serve us.

For example; Do you habitually let people down? Do you habitually lie? Do you habitually feel bad about yourself on a daily basis? Do you habitually stay away from positive opportunities - that could potentially transform the quality of your life?

These type of limiting habits keep us from creating the success we deserve!

Habits represent, whatever has become 'familiar' to you - over a particular period of time!

Meaning, whatever you do over and over again, eventually becomes 'familiar' to you in your life and starts to become a habit.

People usually stay away from making positive changes because 'changes' are 'unfamiliar' to them.

Others tend to be caught in the trap of what's 'familiar' to them, and don't break through fears to create success, hence the expression 'Your stuck in your ways!'

The' unfamiliar' is actually a good thing though, it's taking the opportunities to experience more possibility, more happiness and more success that allows you to break free into new 'unfamiliar' levels of abundance.

Human beings are generally afraid of the 'unfamiliar' as it causes uncertainty, but the unfamiliar is actually the place you need to start diving into more often, especially if you want to improve the quality of your life and create new habits that serve you.

Take a first-time skydiver for example; They want to jump, but uncertainty strikes them with fear of what might happen, but soon they build up that much needed courage to take action and begin getting the results of more freedom, greater accomplishment and new thrilling experiences.

If you don't have that dream job yet, it's because you need to step into the unfamiliar, something new that will increase your success.

If you are un-happy it's because you are 'familiar' with feeling sad and haven't yet stepped into the 'unfamiliar' to create new levels of happiness!

The 'unfamiliar' basically means, what you have YET to experience for yourself! It is impossible to say that an 'opportunity' to venture into something new is bad (or doesn't work) if you haven't yet experienced it (or tried it) for yourself!

The goal here is to venture into these new opportunities and to step into the 'unfamiliar' long enough, so you can make the 'unfamiliar' - familiar in ways that serve you!

Just like learning new habits, you should start practising how to feel good, learn how to become more capable and practice how to manifest success to create the results you want!

Start building new habits and start stepping into 'unfamiliar' situations in your life. Whether if you want to lose weight to start feeling good about yourself, become more social-able, feel more motivated and create the business success you want!

By building new positive habits they'll start to serve you automatically in your daily life!

Build new habits that expand towards greater peaks of success. And make WHAT you want to achieve in your life, more 'familiar' to you from this moment on, by doing things that are unfamiliar to you starting from today!

Make the positive 'unfamiliar' - more familiar to you, for your future success.

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. Grab this opportunity to download your FREE life success mini-course right now by clicking here!

P.P.S. Higher Self Esteem and More allows you to supercharge your personal enhancement, as it consistently builds on the success you already have to today, to achieve more greater success than you currently have right now... for more go here...

Turn Failure Into Success Every-Single Time...!

2009-06-18T10:14:00.000-07:00

There are two very important keys you should know that will help you to deal with life in a more easier way - and also help you to strengthen the success you are building upon everyday.

Now... many of us view life as having two opposites; Success and failure.... or positive and negative.

Usually whenever someone feels bad it makes them feel stuck and almost makes them feel like there's no way to fix the situation. On the other side when somebody feels great they see life in an abundant way and act on good decisions that lead to abundant realms of happiness.

I'm sure you can remember times as a child when you were watching cartoons and you would see cartoon characters who have an angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other; Arguing and trying to give different advice.

These two opposing forces in our lives tend to keep us in limbo, especially when you want to feel good all of the time. That's why many of our negative experiences keep us stuck!

But instead of thinking about 'two opposing forces' what if you viewed negative feedback and mistakes as new learning that allows you to become stronger.

You see, it isn't the negative things within itself that stops you from being happy, it's 'how' you perceive the negative things that causes you to feel unhappy.

In other words, if you look at negative things in a 'useless' way, it's just going to keep you stuck in a whirlpool of in capability.

But by cultivating the belief that allows you to view negative situations as just new information, feedback and ' temporary experiences' - you begin to look at problems in ways that allow you to move on.

By cultivating this attitude you are able to increase your success and also learn from failure at the same time. This one attitude, learning, will free you from alot of pain in your life and help you to keep the ball rolling in the right directions that serve you.

One of the common things in life is that there will always be humps in the road, but instead of jumping and screaming at the hump and feeling upset about it, it's much more useful to approach the situation with a forklift that can figure out how to get the ball rolling again.

With the attitude of learning you are able to use this forklift.

When you gain the ability to learn from failure life becomes an adventure... you know that you are moving towards greater accomplishments and your courage assists you to make your life even better.

Your life formula changes from negative and positive as opposites, to positive and learning as tools that work together to bring you more of what you want in life!

To take on this new attitude try this simple exercise...

1. Imagine another self standing in front of you equipped with all the attitudes and beliefs that allow you to feel flexible in the face of problems - with abundant resources inside of you that help you to gain more positive ideas from negative situations more easily.

2. Once you have build yourself up to be the flexible, capable and the strong person you desire to be... imagine stepping into this enhanced self now and join in with all the beliefs and attitudes, and feelings that allow you to deeply convince yourself... you are this person.

Given that you will always have a particular response to negative situations, why not design in beliefs that work smoothly for you, instead of ones that made life more difficult, doesn't that just make alot of sense?

You already have the resources within you, it's just about (practising and) reminding yourself of them (with this exercise) so they become automatically available to you in the real world whenever you need them.

Always 'learn' how to feel good, by improving on your daily successes; and learn from your mistakes to change your failures into more success to assist you in the future.

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

For the complete system that assists you to learn from failure and turn all frustration into greater success with the right cutting-edge strategies go Here...

P.S Also check out the Hypnotic Confidence audio program for automatic confidence programming techniques.

How To Manifest 'Automatic' Attraction Everyday!

2009-06-14T05:31:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Today let's talk about attraction and how you can attract new things into your life.

Now, when I say 'things' I don't necessarily mean just more money, cars, your dream house and all the material things you can think of... but more so about attracting happiness, joy, love, passion, opportunities and abundance into your life.

Now I'm sure you've heard of the law of attraction, It's pretty 'mysterious' as it glosses over many other important factors that must be taken into consideration, such as the law of 'cause and effect' .

I do believe though, that 'thinking about things' in a certain way changes your outlook on life, effects how you see the world and how you accept new positive opportunities.

It isn't that your thoughts within itself causes you to get the things you want, but it's the thoughts that open up higher levels of awareness which causes you to get the things you want.

In other words, with better quality thoughts, attracts a better quality life!

The more information, ideas and learning you have, the more you'll be able to create and attract the type of life-style you want by virtue of learning positive ideas that help you to get it!

Every new idea you learn contributes to a higher level of attraction and vibration.

New ideas = Higher Vibration = More attraction

Imagine a person who is rich and successful; This type of person knows certain things to be able to live that type of successful life style.

If you were to put somebody who has a lower level of awareness into this type of lifestyle, they would most likely lose everything because they don't have the same level of awareness to maintain this type of life-style.

'It would require them to catch up in success awareness!'

This demonstrates that it doesn't matter how positively you think, it's what you 'know' that allows you to create, attract and maintain the success you want.

That's the law of attraction!

Reading this right now is contributing to your ability to attract because you are learning new things that allow your mind to vibrate at a higher level of frequency!

Automatically you are increasing your level of vibration through the participation of learning.

These types of thoughts and learnings are completely different to just hoping that things will come true.

Imagining that you have a car will not enable one to fall into your lap, but building a positive frame of mind and expanding your awareness in the right directions that enable you to learn How to get a car, will surely get you a car.

Knowing How not only helps you to use your imagination and expand it to higher levels of vibration, but also gives you the tools to physically create this success in the real world!

How is considered everything for your future success!

Find out how to make more money, how to be more happy and how to build better relationships and you will attract based on this knowledge!

Throw out the fairy tale stuff and get more realistic! Your thoughts DO attract what you want in life, but it's the quality of the thoughts you use and learn that determine the difference, not the positive thinking itself!

If the law of attraction means to attractive things into your life with higher quality thoughts, then through the act of learning and inspiration you are increasing the quality of your thoughts everyday based on the new things you are learning continuously.

Peace and Love,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. To build higher awareness automatically get Hypnotic Confidence, it automatically conditions your mind to vibrate at higher levels of frequency, you'll feel wonderful and you'll notice positive results the very first time you use it.

Secrets Of A Real Man...

2009-06-11T13:44:00.000-07:00

Hello,

(The following article is about the 'alpha male' but can also be applied to women as 'alpha females' too.)

What is a REAL man exactly? What is a TRUE Alpha male?

In our general society we are told that an alpha male is someone who pushes people around, who is arrogant - doesn't care what anybody else thinks and is only concerned about his own needs.

This is simply not true!

Actually, a real alpha male has very important qualities.

The first is that he has the ability to show compassion to others, the second is that he has a powerful self respect and a courageous eye for leadership!

Have you ever met a person who was strong, who you felt safe around and who was able to uplift you and keep a smile on your face no matter what the situation? Someone who was in control of themselves and radiated a strong presence that allowed you to look up to that person?

When you learn to walk through the world with a masculine energy that conveys confidence and personal power as you feel secure within yourself and be considerate of others without turning into an emotional wreck; You gain true flexibility and power.

Let's go through a little example here:

Imagine that you are in the army, your a commander on the battle field and you notice someone is injured.

In our general societies point of view, as an alpha male, you would probably imagine the commander telling the injured man to suck it up and keep going. The wounded man circumstances is totally ignored and he is forced to go into battle no matter how he feels.

If the soft type of man were the commander (according to our society) he would start getting upset, his ability to make decisions would weaken and he'll be totally disoriented about what has happened to the injured man, which will leave the soldiers to doubt their commanders ability to lead them to victory.

The true alpha male will act a little differently in this situation though. He would stay strong in his ability to lead the team to victory. The commander will also be able to notice and understand his injured solders predicament. He recognises a member of his team is injured, he congruently checks up on him, makes sure how he's feeling and encourages him to go on. He steps down to the soldiers level and then brings him back up to a place of power, confidence and motivation. He doesn't ignore his soldiers circumstances or regard him as weak, but he doesn't let his injured soldier 'set the tone' or effect the outcome to win the victory.

The true alpha male has a balance of strength and consideration. He is bold and also respects people because he is secure enough within himself to be a provider and a leader in life.

This is what a true alpha male is, the ability to make others strong and safe around you, to enhance people and stay strong within your ability to understand others and protect the ones you love with strength that knows no bounds!

A villain is someone who uses power to take advantage of others. It's someone who steals and tries to induce fear to make them feel superior, with total disregard of the consequences.

A civilian is someone who can't protect himself, someone who needs to be saved and someone who can't stick up for himself and someone who allows people to take advantage of him.

The Hero is secure within his ability to make quick decisions, he jumps into dangerous situations with total disregard of his own safety to protect and help others around him. The hero is courageous, understands his own strengths, he doesn't get ahead of himself and he is fuelled with a secure confidence that is unbreakable and unbeatable.

The fact that the hero cares about others makes him more stronger and unstoppable. His power is used to enhance others because he is completely secure in his power to do so.

Once you begin to walk through the world with an inner strength that cannot be broken or crumbled by other people, and be able to care about others without becoming like them, and also be a leader in life and strong enough to be a provider you become a true alpha male.

In short there are three qualities you must learn to become a true leader.

1. Be unbreakable in mind, body and spirit.

2. Be considerate of other people, understand them and enhance them with your powerful energy.

3. Have goals, be a leader in life and be courageous enough to go after your dreams, break through limitations in a way that represents your ability to be a provider in life.

These three qualities signify a true alpha male; And having people like this in your life is a true inspirational to us all.

To become this type of person for yourself, you must begin to build your self esteem and confidence, you must be un-afraid of showing love to people and you must be adventurous and have enough personal power to go after what you want.

An alpha male is like a friendly giant, someone who is strong and shows consideration.

Let's do a small exercise:

1. Imagine that there is a more confident self in front of you. Imagine yourself having all the special qualities of an alpha male like we discussed.

2. Now watch your alpha male self grow 40 feet tall. Watch and hear how your thunderous voice exudes with power and finesse from this higher place.

3. Now imagine stepping into this alpha male self now, and look through those 40 foot tall eyes and feel the power of what it's like to be strong and caring at the same time.

4. Notice other people around you, imagine connecting with them, feeling powerful within yourself as you make eye contact, enhancing them and feeling secure and confident with yourself as you do it.

Once you make this attitude a part of your physiology, mind and emotional field by using this exercise more often, you'll begin to radiate an alpha male energy that is congruent and very rare.

These types of techniques are integrated into the Hypnotic Confidence session which can be found Here...

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. This attitude and exercise can also be used by females as you grow to feel like a more successful, confident and secure woman. It's not just limited to 'males' :)

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Exposing The Lies About "Will Power!"

2009-06-07T14:03:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Today I would like to share with you a chapter taken from my book: Higher Self Esteem and More...

Learn How To Use Your WILL To Create Power and Choice In Your Life!

Will

What determines your results?

The ultimate power in being able to exercise your will.

Now, some people will refer to will as 'will power' but the word "power" attached to the end of the word will only confuses us when it comes to really understanding what our will truly is.

Most of us think of power as strength, position of authority or control

The word power added to the end of our own will, speaks in terms of effort or an ability that is used, possessed or has been gained.

But this doesn't help us to understand anything!

We understand that somebody can have the ability to do a cartwheel, or a speaker having the ability to produce sounds, or the human eye possessing the ability to see. But to speak of the ability to will, leaves us completely confused to understand how naturally EFFORTLESS our will really is.

Will: To make a reasoned choice, decision and action

In other words, force and effort is not required when using will. As will is being able to choose, decide and act.

We have the will to do so, as we have the freedom of choice. However, this does not mean we can do whatever we want.

You cannot make someone do something against their own will

A person 'could' make someone take action by making them feel scared or excited enough. But that someone chooses and acts based on their own decisions.

A person that is scared chooses to succumb to fear by their own decisions. Someone that is excited enough decides to act according to their own reasons.

You cannot make someone do something against their own reasons and decisions, because they reason and decide according to what they choose is best for them.

The notion of somebody making someone do something against their will - is ridiculous. When you tell someone to jump they don't automatically do it every time unless they have a reason or have chosen to do so.

We all possess the ability to will and this must not be mistaken with "will power", which means to apply effort to make a simple decision.

It doesn't take any effort to use your will. It's just a case of deciding to move your muscles and directing your focus in the directions you want.

Everybody has will - and for the person that has the typical "will power" label, is just someone that has become used to making decisions, and then acting upon them; as a result, they have unleashed the natural power we all possess within us.

The so called 'strongest will powered person in the world' has no power of will over you, as we all have the same ability to choose, decide, think and move alike. THE POINT HERE IS THAT WE ARE ALL USING THE SAME ABILITY!

Will is just a case of: will you? Or wont you?

If you will do something; then you will use your will to take action.

Trying to use power or force against your own ability to decide and act is pointless, because you'll only be resisting against your natural ability of body and mind.

When you can't be bothered to do something, you are really implying that you can't be bothered to move your own body.

If you end up fighting against yourself to take action, relax and start again - to gain the habit of being able to use your will naturally and effortlessly.

Above all, the choices and decisions you make in the present regarding your unbeneficial thoughts and behaviours that you are aware of, are completely your choice if you continue to persist in them. In other words, if you become aware of your negative thoughts or behaviours and continue to do them, that's your own choice.

Are you going to choose a direction that serves you or not?

If you do not make empowering, beneficial decisions in how you want to live your life; then you have already made a decision haven't you?

You have made the decision to be directed and controlled by your environment instead of creating the future you deserve.

Make decisions that benefit your life's higher self esteem.

Determination is directed focus and action, and action is what impacts your daily life.

Act upon your beneficial feelings and decisions. And use effortless will in life to reach the given end of your desired goals.

In a nutshell

1. Will "power" is described as effort and this is WRONG!

2. To will - is to make choices, decide and act

3. Get used to using your will until it naturally becomes effortless

5. Will you - or wont you?

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Your S.A.E Sneak Preview!

2009-06-04T13:03:00.000-07:00

Hello,

What is S.A.E...?

Well, as personal development enhancers we want to pass onto you 'models and processes' of success so you can utilize them to create physical success in your own life.

Now what do I mean by models and processes?

What I want to convey to you, is that we all run through different habits, patterns and scenario's in our minds to create the results we get in life.

These processes (unconscious habits) usually run on auto-pilot without us even being aware of it.

If you are feeling sad, unworthy, lazy, incapable etc... there is a unique process that you go through in your mind that creates these feelings, thoughts and beliefs, which in tern create your given result.

Somebody came up to me and said they had trouble with singing on stage, they felt nervous.

So I said to him, because I don't know how to create nervousness when I get up on stage you'll have to teach me.

So this is what he said (after asking him some clever questions)... "Before I get up on stage I imagine everything going wrong, people booing me off and then I feel worthless and incapable, then I imagine myself with my head down, dragging myself off the stage"

Now you can do this in your mind right now and you'll feel nervous too. This imaginary scenario of images/movies, thoughts, sounds, self talk, ideas and negative expectations causes him to feel nervous and makes him not want to go on stage. This is the process he is creating in his mind.

Think of it as baking a cake. When you bake a cake you have to put in the right ingredients, in the right order to get a tasty cake. If you put in the flour first, then put it in the oven, then after 30 minutes you add in the egg your cake will be awful!

Every feeling, limitation or anything you 'consider' to be negative in your life is a process' that you go through in your mind. Whether if it's unworthiness, hesitation, procrastination, doubt, fear etc...)

And the 'order of ingredients' you use tend to drive the everyday actions and decisions you make in life.

For example, if you desire to take action but feel nervous, your feeling nervous because of the (unconscious) process you are going through in your mind which is causing you to feel nervous, and that nervousness usually doesn't make you want to take action at all.

Once you become aware of the unconscious process and change it, you'll be able to create better results out of your life with a process that really works to help you succeed!

S.A.E is all about teaching, offering and discovering (within yourself) new processes that work so you can learn to get better results out of your life on a daily basis.

So what did I do with the guy who was frightened to get up in stage to sing?

I helped him to discover a process that would best serve him in the situation he wanted.

I got him to imagine himself on stage 20 feet tall, exuberating a great positive energy, imagine singing from his heart and letting his words be guided with passion! I got him to imagine the audience looking amazed with tears of joy at his amazing talent! I got him to imagine himself demonstrating his best performance.

You can only guess how this made him feel after he did it. His face suddenly began to get happy, his expectations of himself got higher, his physiology changed and he was ready to sing in that moment.

If you know the right processes to create in your imagination, with the use of mind movies, pictures, sounds and voices, you will put yourself into better states and better frames of mind that give you the outcomes you want.

By practising these types of processes daily you 'become' the process itself.

It's just like learning how to drive a car, you had to learn a process, you learned each individual task in the right sequence to the point where, now your mind automatically does it all for you.

By learning success processes of confidence, motivation, self worth and by learning formulas that enable you to become more wealthy, make more money and find better relationships... all you need to do is practice the right process until you start getting your desired results!

S.A.E is going to show you how to unlock the power of your mind (with the right tools) to create success processes 'for yourself' that serve you in the situations you desire.

And it's also going to teach you processes of individuals who have already created success in sports, business, relationships, investment etc... so you can re-create the results for yourself with formulas that really work.

Learning these success processes will help you to get the car of your dreams, the house you want and the type of life-style you desire to achieve!

All success is a process, It just takes practice!

Success Allocation Enhancement will teach you unconscious processes and conscious 'real' life formulas and strategies to help you easily create success in every area of your life!!

What does Success Allocation Enhancement Mean Exactly??

In the next issue, I'm going to describe in a nutshell what S.A.E means...

And go into more detail about some cool success processes you can use to enhance your life!

Till next time,

Nicholas Finnegan

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See you soon.

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Become Responsible For Your Own Abundance! Part 2

2009-06-02T05:18:00.000-07:00

In the last issue we spoke about how life is all about learning to have FUN!

Listen: Life is all about pleasure...

This very moment is filled with relaxation, bliss, hope and happiness if you take a moment to look around you.

Take a look up at the sky and see the clouds floating by, the powerful rays of the sun that keep you warm, the air that we breathe everyday and your heart that beats without you telling it too.

In this present moment, be grateful for everything you have in your life that you have taken for granted. Your friends, family, your opportunities, the house you live in and the bed you sleep in every night.

You are a living breathing human being... take in that fresh air and feel ALIVE and be CONNECTED with the world!!

You are blessed with the ability to move, feel, imagine, create, wonder, learn, play, enjoy .... all of these options and gifts are available to you in every waking moment.

Your ability to become happy with an adventurous outlook on life is at your constant beck and call.

You can be anything and do anything you want with a conscious decision to do so!

Become aware of greater inspired thoughts and actions!

Use this moment to acknowledge to yourself, "I am an excellent person and I'm going to figure out ways how to make my life even better".

This is an acknowledgement of what's already good in your life, to improve on it - to build even more self appreciation and happiness.

When you acknowledge good feelings right now, you are most likely to pursue ways to feel even better.

Life is all about building on the pleasure you already have so you can experience even more of this pleasure. Success breeds even greater success!

RAISE your standards and allow your present abundance to guide you towards your future!

As you begin to manifest this within yourself, your life begins to become an opportunity for life success and happiness... and this is FUN!

- Acknowledge your current success and become inspired for the future...

Let your goals lead your inspiration and be hungry for more success every day.

- Fill yourself up with passion for the future and use it to grow even more successful than you are right now!

With appreciation NOW and passion you continuously grow to feel good about improving the quality of your life.

In the western world we are usually taught to 'go achieve goals' so we can succeed and eventually feel good. In the eastern world they say "I'm supposed to enjoy myself right now because this is all there is!"

The western world is focused on the future and the Eastern world is focused on the present, but we need both!

We need full-fillment and achievement at the same time.

Equally the past and future are both working together in this unique way to give you the success you want in life!

Exercise:

1. Imagine yourself 5 years from now. What are you going to experience after you achieve life success? (Think about all of the things you are going to experience when you have achieved your ultimate goals.) How is it going to feel? What are you going to hear? Taste? Experience? Has your surroundings changed? How has your life dramatically improved for the better by achieving your goals??

2. How does visualizing your dreams in this positive way create more self appreciation? (List all the reasons why imagining your positive future enables you to feel more abundant right now.) How has this exercise filled you up with inspiration in the present moment to succeed for the future? How does it feel to recognize your current life abundance? How grateful are you to have the opportunity to create success right now?

Remember that life is a gift, as soon as you are grateful for what you already have, you become RICH! Rich with emotion, rich with passion, rich with fulfilment!

"Don't settle for anything less than you can be!"

Your a living, breathing human being with masses of potential! Life is an opportunity, USE IT and embrace it EVERYDAY! :)

From Nick

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Become Responsible For Your Own Abundance!

2009-06-02T05:14:00.000-07:00

Hello,

The responsibility to build your life abundance is your own!

It's far more rewarding when you learn how to overcome personal obstacles for YOURSELF!

At the end of the day, they are YOUR obstacles, these are your personal barriers that are keeping you from achieving success, Nobody else's!

Wouldn't you like to be secure in the fact that you can create success by yourself without relying on... 'the skills of other people' to do it? Better off learning these skills for yourself!

My friend Hanieh once told me "To become successful at something, act like you have already achieved it!"

Now this also means learning too... somebody who is the best in their game is a fully certified 'life time learner'! And that's exactly what you need to become too!

To create your success become a life-time learner in the subjects you choose!

You are already successful, it's just going to take practice!

Even the very best in the world continues to improve their skills! And we all have to start somewhere, don't we?

When you overcome your personal barriers, whether if it's performing better, having more motivation or getting rid of your fears, you'll grow to become a more successful person based on the obstacles and challenges you have overcome in your life.

The more obstacles you pursue to overcome, the more successful you'll become. Period!

The only reason you are not living your dreams up until now is because you haven't yet overcome your current personal barriers (fears, frustrations, limiting beliefs etc...) and you haven't yet learned how to become wealthy, create a thriving business, etc... because you haven't yet learned the right strategies and formulas that govern (create) this type of success.

To overcome these barriers, you'll need start to learning for yourself, by doing this you'll become a successful individual. That's what learning is all about! FUN!!

It's your life, expand and enhance it! Expand your possibilities, have fun while your learning, just like when you were a kid learning new fun filled games!

Snakes and ladders and checkers.... to become a successful athlete, a movie star, They all consist of learning and having FUN!

Isn't life a game anyway??

Learn how to become a better player, in the subjects of success you choose, if you want to succeed in life!

To Your Success and Powers,

Nicholas Finnegan

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How To Become Congruent For Success!

2009-05-28T11:24:00.000-07:00

A small conversation about congruence....

Mj IChange: I'm thinking about a word I have come across from many people lately, and it has been used by them without them knowing its specific definition for the context it has been most often used. Let me clarify for you... Congruence = Alignment of identity, beliefs and values, capabilities and behaviour. Being in rapport with oneself

Nicholas Finnegan: My personal definition is having all your resources (on all levels) in line with your desires! All your resources fully working with your desires to bring about the results you want in life in any given situation - smoothness, stream-lined, congruence.

Incongruence is like turbulence on a plane! ;)

It's a powerful word isn't it? One of my favs lol! Bringing all conscious and unconscious resources into alignment :) Don't you just love personal development lol!

Mj IChange: This is why I first found interest Nic, its knowing all the small chunks that make up the whole picture of us as human beings.
I do admire your definition though Nic, although Im not too sure on the turbulence metaphor, care to enlighten me further?

Nicholas Finnegan: Sure! I totally agree with your definition. When I said resources I meant unconscious resources (beliefs, feelings, thoughts, self image etc...) and conscious resources (behaviours, decisions, ideas etc...) all working together to create your desired result.

In other words, if you desire to approach a group of people with the goal in mind to have fun, create rapport, excitement and close. You are congruent by virtue of the fact that your conscious desires and your unconscious resources are working in-line 'together' to produce the outcomes you want.

Congruency 'rapport with oneself' as you called it.

My turbulence statement was a metaphor, meaning that your unconscious and conscious minds are not working congruently, so there's in-congruence, 'turbulence' or argument between what you consciously desire and how your unconscious is responding....

Once these two are Aligned, depending on the situation, you become congruent.

Another example would be wanting to approach a woman but feeling scared. You consciously want to approach, but your unconscious is bringing up anxious signals. That's incongruence.

If you want to approach a woman, and automatically you feel secure, confident and calm (in response to what you consciously desire), you become congruent in your approach....

What you want, is easily accessible by you, in any given situation.

To me that's congruence.

I like your definition, straight to the point. But I'm sure there are many ways to describe it. Wouldn't you agree? :D

Mj IChange: I think we just battoned down the hatches on that one me fellow sea dweller ;)
Thanks for the clarification. :D

Nicholas Finnegan: ey ey mee matey!! All aboard the seven see's yarrrhh lol! Nice one my brother!

In a nutshell: Congruence is when you consciously want something that your mind automatically helps you to attain. Your decisions, actions, emotions and beliefs all work together to manifest your deepest desires.

'In rapport with oneself' = Congruency!

See ya later,

Nick

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What Really Makes You Feel Good??

2009-05-12T06:01:00.000-07:00

There are three types of ways people use to feel good about themselves.

The first is that they do active things to feel good. Such as skiing, music, art, writing... etc...

The second is they recognize things within themselves that makes them feel good. Example, ideas, beliefs, qualities - what makes you up as a person (self appreciation) etc...

The third is using other peoples opinions to feel good. I have this, look at me, look what I can do etc..

The best ones to use are the pro-active ways to feel good; and the deep qualities within yourself that you recognise makes you feel good (self appreciation of who you are).

The third one is based on external reliance because if you didn't have these things, if you didn't look a certain way, if people didn't like what you have, then you wouldn't have anything!

You become reliant on what other people think instead of being your own personal resource of feeling good about yourself!

If you have to rely on somebody else's opinion to make you feel good, sexy, intelligent, smart, worthy... or if you have to rely on what somebody else created to make you feel good, or what somebody has (that you need) to make you feel good, then unfortunately you lack the ability to make yourself feel good about yourself!

Personal power comes from finding whatever you need WITHIN yourself!

Your I-pod sucks! Nobody cares about what you look like! Anybody can do that, you ain't that special! Keep on dreaming buddy!! Nobody gives a damn about what clothes labels you have!

If any of these comments stunt your growth (or make you angry) notice you are relying on something outside of yourself to keep yourself secure, instead of relying on something more powerful that comes from within!

Love my bum!

P.S. If you don't care about what I think, at least (take a moment to) care about how you think about yourself as a person.

Peace! ☺

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A Profound Understanding!‏

2009-05-08T01:22:00.000-07:00

Two realms of understanding - that I have discovered which cause a balance!

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I do not judge you, I seek understanding, If you don't agree with something, it's ok for you to regard it as shit, but I won't!

It's ok for you to judge me, you do not need to seek understanding, I will not judge anything you say or do, I will seek to understand you!

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Read this to uncover it's mystery... unveil the deep balance that this understanding holds, granted that you'll reveal the powerful balance that resides inside of you...

Until next time, see you again,

Nicholas Finnegan

Warning! Explicit Language and Intimidation....

2009-05-08T01:19:00.000-07:00

Hello,

How's it going ? Today I would like to share with you a post that was posted on a forum from a guy who had a very intimidating experience with some drunk men on a Saturday night.

.. This was a great opportunity for me to help someone so I decided to offer him some advice...

The following conversation is mainly about confidence and the difference between 'arrogance' .. passiveness and REAL self confidence. Only 98% of the world even knows about this...

Here it goes...

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Posted by *Stephen2009*

Title: Intimidation story

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Three guys were walking down the street and I pass through them.

One of them said: "F*cking idiot"

I stopped and turned around and said: "what?", knowing exactly what he said

He came up to me and said: "What's your problem?"

Holding eye contact I said: "what are you on about?"

Him:" f***ing prick"
then he walked back to his other larger louts

I stood there just went: "p*ss off old man"
and walked off

I believe that was the confident way because I stood my ground and yet I was not threatening myself.

You got to be submissive when you know they are going to fight espeially when they are drunk.

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*From Anom 2*

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Except that you went down to their level.

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Original poster *Stephen2009*:

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Are you referring to the name calling I did?

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Nicholas:

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Hello *Stephen2009*

It's not important about what you said, it's more important to recognise how you felt when you stuck up for yourself.

If you felt like you were picking a fight, that would be arrogance... If you felt like you were being violated... that would be passiveness... but if you felt like you were calm and congruent in your approach to protect your self respect, and it felt like the best thing to do at the time; as long as it's set into your daily morals as a human being...

It may have been ok, but you can only judge this for yourself...

Just remember that arrogance is a sign of low self confidence too, because arrogance is an act...

Real confidence is held within yourself as a human being, because you ALREADY ARE a confidence person, you don't need to show it off to others because you are 'already' confident. Make sense?

Don't ask peoples opinions because they don't know how it felt at the time, use your own 'logical reasoning' to determine if it personally fits with you... and you can also adjust and be flexible to try on new ideas and beliefs.

Look: This is most powerful confidence there is ... 'choice'... because it's not influenced or drained out by the external world or other peoples negative jargon.

Instead, you become totally secure within your ability to walk through the world and feel confident within your 'self' no matter what - or whatever happens.

If you feel confident within yourself to ignore negative statements from people completely, then you have 'True' confidence.

Why? Because it's Not passiveness, it's Not arrogance.. but secure self confidence... that is NEVER broken by external influences or other people.

Your Confidence becomes Your Own! Unshaken and Unstirred.

So the moment that person can get to you, is the very moment you have lost. So stay ABOVE all that and stay secure within yourself... Become calm and congruent!

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*Original poster *Stephen2009*

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Hay Nicholas,

that was some awesome advice.

I certainly wasn't looking for a fight but I didn't want to be passive so I thought if I still stood my ground then that would be the best.

I have certainly seen a clearly view of what confidence is after what you say:

You're not trying to let people know your confident, but just knowing to yourself is.

It's all about how you feel and what you think and sod the rest.

I like you hypnosis a lot I have already posted a review for you in your post.

(*The following post is the review he posted on my thread*:)

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*Stephen2009*

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Hay Nicholas,

I would strongly advise everyone to get this because it is very relaxing. Everytime I use it (in bed) I never toss and turn like i usually do because I am relaxed. When your relaxed the positive comments are more potent: they sink in to your subconscious and stay there.

It s the best MP3 I have got, so far Wink*

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Nicholas:

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Thanks *Stephen2009*. That means alot. I wish you the very best of luck in all your confident pursuits and future strengths. Cheers :)

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I hope this wasn't too long for you to read... there are some good nuggets in there that you can use to start cultivating the right attitudes and beliefs to becoming a more confident person.

Remember: Confidence is about having 'choice' - the ability to respond to challenging situations however you want to with a calm congruency. And having that ability to make decisions - and 'stick to them' - towards the pursuit of your goals.

For the opportunity to learn more about this go here

Thanks for taking the time to read this email. I really 'do' believe that all human beings have the hidden power inside of them to feel and live up to what their dreams are made up of...

The Key is to un-tap this natural abundant resource inside of you, to feel it in every fibre of your being...

....and your life...

Enjoy the rest of your day...

To Peace, Love and Power,

Nicholas Finnegan

I threw up today! :(

2009-05-08T01:16:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Today I would like to talk about friendship...

Something happened to me today that almost caused me to physically throw up.

Let me explain this to you...

Me and a very good friend of mine have known each other for nearly two years. Alot of these two years have been spent sharing ideas, laughing together, hanging out and enjoying each others company and having fun.

I would say that she has probably been one of the bestest friends that I've ever had, and as you probably know, good friends are not very easy to come by.

Today we had an argument...

Alot of this argument was caused by confusion... not being able to understand each other in the ways we could have. Alot of mis-communication, mis-understandings and me finding it very difficult to explain myself and the situation for us to come to some sort of an agreement.

Allot of the friendships and/or relationships we have in our lives are based upon us growing to understand each other and working through the pain, especially if the pain is only temporary...

Well... needless to say... and very unfortunately... our 2 year long friendship came to a screeching end a few moments ago when she decided that she wanted nothing at all to do with me.

She cut me off facebook, won't reply to my textes and may have changed her number.

Now... how could after two years of fun, laughter and love with someone be thrown away like that over one single argument?

Well personally I don't know....

But this has made me physically sick today!

Knowing that 98% of our friendship was spent on us growing closer to each other.

That 98% of that time was spent on us sharing positive experiences and connecting together...

And the fact that someone was willing to throw all that away, all the positive experiences, all the love, all the laughter, all the connecting, all the sharing, all the caring... they would just throw all that away over one argument that lasted a few hours...?

This did make me sick, hurt and betrayed! And she promised that we'd be friends forever! :-\

Well here's my point to this email...

If someone is not willing to stick by you when your tearing yourself apart, when your very angry at them, when your going through pain, when your so frustrated that all you can do is curse...

when someone isn't willing to hold onto your friendship despite these arguments...

And if they are willing to throw away 98% of your friendship in exchange for 2% pain that could be sorted out through talking and/or compromising... then maybe that person really wasn't your friend at all.

I hope you have been able to take something from this email. And I hope I didn't startle you with what happened to me today.

I am meaning the most positive intentions by sending you this email. With hope that you will appreciate your friendships, appreciate those who stick by you and compromise with your friends if they ever seem troubled or disoriented.

It isn't worth throwing away love, fun, laughter and all the positive memories you've shared over something negative that could be sorted out if only we would compromise and appreciate each other more.

To love and friendship,

Nicholas Finnegan

The Power Of Positive Beliefs! :-)

2009-04-13T11:49:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Today let's talk about the power of beliefs!

Many people don't understand what beliefs are, what they do or the great impact they have on a persons behaviours, feelings, thoughts and capability.

Your beliefs act like a gate to your inner resources as a human being...

If you believe that you are a confident person, you will view the world through this belief and your mind will offer you confident resources to make your life and situations more easier to deal with.

On the contrary to this, if you believe that you are incapable, your beliefs will act like a self fulfilling prophesy. Your negative beliefs will put you into a limited frame of mind, where the only resources you can access are those that match your negative beliefs.

By virtue of building new positive beliefs, you are able to expand your frame of mind to higher levels of awareness and possibility.

A belief is an idea that you have about yourself - that you pre-suppose to be true!

In other words, if you pre-suppose that your going to fail before you even try, it isn't necessarily a fact that your going to fail, but it's because you pre-supposed that your a failure which is going to determine your results in given situations.

Beliefs automatically guide your thinking, feeling and behaving.

When you convince your mind that you can succeed, feel happier, create the relationship and wealth you desire, you will build new beliefs and unlock inner resources that support you to get what you want out of your life.

A great way to build new beliefs and convince your mind of something new is through the act of repetition.

You can repeat something over and over again and the more times you do it successfully, the more you will begin to believe that you can feel different about things to succeed.

The other way to build new beliefs is through mental rehearsal. If you continuously rehearse yourself feeling happy, succeeding in life and creating the results you deserve, your mind will eventually become convinced of your new beliefs to create more happiness.

Let's go through a little exercise for you to convince your mind for success and build new positive beliefs.

1. Think about a new belief that you would like to cultivate.

(It can be anything, for example: "I am a successful person" "You are a capable individual" "I am an attractive person" "You are successful speaker" etc...)

2. Remember a time when you demonstrated the right attitudes, behaviours and feelings that would best represent this new belief.

(For example, If you wanted to feel more attractive, you would remember a time in your past when you felt more attractive, had positive thoughts like an attractive person and behaved like an attractive person. Imagine stepping into yourself all over again and notice what it feels like to take on this perspective all over again as a new belief.)

3. Remember a time when you attracted positive results into your life automatically, as a result of having the attitudes and behaviours of this new belief.

(For example: You would remember a time when someone found you attractive, without you even trying to be attractive at all. So maybe you were just minding your own business when someone came along and gave you a positive compliment, which allowed you to feel like an attractive person. This is like 'magnetism' through the use of your beliefs.)

4. Imagine a future scenario of yourself having the attitudes and feelings that would best represent this new belief.

(For example: Imagine yourself feeling attractive in the future, going out and meeting new people and notice the positive effects you have on your environment with the new thoughts, behaviours and feelings that allow you to present this new belief.

This simple technique works very well because you take positive feelings from your past, utilize times when you attracted positive opportunities and you also create positive goals for the future.

It helps to convince your mind of these three different things.

That you were able to create something positive in the past.

That you were able to attract something positive in the past (without any effort)

That you ARE able to imagine yourself in the future living with the beliefs that you want.

By doing this 3 step process over and over again, your mind begins to become convinced of the new beliefs that you are designing in. Eventually your mind will begin to pre-suppose it to be true, to the point where you have immediate access to it in the real world.

Do this exercise once a day for about 2-3 weeks from steps 1-4.

This exercise and many others are integrated into my 'Hypnotic Confidence' Hypnosis Audio Session which makes it much easier for you to design in new beliefs.

You are put into a deep hypnotic state where your mind can easily accept positive suggestions as my voice guides you through many different positive scenarios, like the ones we just went through to build positive beliefs.

Try out this exercise yourself and notice how you feel much better about your life.

Until next time...

Live with power and success,

Nicholas Finnegan

Greater Social Self Esteem Will Be Yours Today!

2009-04-11T03:33:00.000-07:00

Having a good level of self esteem enables you to express your personality in social situations more easily. Higher Self Esteem is very important for radiating greater charisma and charm, whether it being at a friends party, a first date or a family meal.

Many people who don't have good self esteem can find it very difficult to spark up good conversations and keep them flowing in positive directions. If someone has low self esteem, they may unconsciously believe they don't deserve to be around positive people. A low level of self esteem can stunt many of your natural social attributes and talents if you don't know how to create a sense of 'flow'.

Some people focus on themselves when they communicate and this this isn't very effective during social interactions. Many people feel like they don't fit in with the crowd so they keep themselves to themselves. However, once you start to build on your self esteem and expand your social skills, many new opportunities to have fun and experience more pleasure will present themselves into your life.

As your confidence rises, so will your ability to attract the type of happy people you deserve in your life.

By focusing on what you want to create, rather than the limitations that once held you back, your positive vibrational energy will begin to expand and reach out to more people around you.

Remember that like attracts like!

Human beings pick-up social energies all the time. Most of these connections take place under our conscious awareness, such as when you feel that special 'click' with someone and you don't know why. The more you use this type of flowing energy to communicate, and seek to expand your charisma, you'll find your inspiration to connect with others increases substantially.

It could take some time to 'warm up' to the idea of socializing with more ease; Even some of the best communicators in the world start off 'shy' before they eventually start to warm up to people around them. A great idea is to have a goal you would like to achieve before you go out to social events. This will set yourself up for greater social success.

Perhaps you would like to have some more fun, or to do something 'out of the ordinary' with a sense of adventure, or perhaps you would like to just make your friends feel more appreciated and loved. For you to socialize effectively most of your focus must be held on the person/people you are communicating with, by using a positive intention to make them feel good around you.

The better you can make people feel when you are in their presence, the more they are likely to enjoy your company, talk to you and open up to you; As this happens you'll find yourself naturally opening up to them because they will open up your personality for you.

The best experience in the world is when someone gets you to come out of your shell by being nice to you, and you can achieve this wonderful phenomenon by being nice to them first... With higher self esteem you can achieve flowing conversations easily and people will flock to you as the one to follow.

Next we'll lay out the foundations you need to naturally become a better socialist.

The most powerful way to become the life of the party is with Higher Self Esteem that is flexible in every situation. Don't leave it to chance, take action right now!

To your social self esteem success :)

Do You Blame Yourself For Things That You Didn't Even Do??

2009-04-05T10:22:00.000-07:00

Hello,

In this post I wanted to share with you a recent question I received from one of my youtube videos.

I have re-written it slightly so it makes more sense for you in this particular post.

From, (Anommonous)

hi nicholas, wat should i do to interpret things that occurs in my daily life in a more positive way? im having tendency to blame myself if anything goes wrong even though i do realize that i did nutin wrong

Nicholas:

Hello,

If you realize that you did nothing wrong, what exactly are you blaming yourself for?

A great way to interrupt or ( better yet - utilize) negative things that occur in your daily life is to ask yourself questions that are directed towards the positive.

When you feel bad, DON'T say to yourself...

"Why am I such a failure?"

"Why does this always to happen to me?"

"Why do I always get things wrong!" etc...

When you ask your mind a question, it gives you an answer, ask a negative question and you'll get a set of negative answers which don't feel good.

But by asking yourself questions that are directed towards the positive, such as...

"How can I learn from this?"

"What is it about this situation that has helped me to become a stronger person?"

"How can I look at this situation differently in ways that allow me to feel better about myself?"

By doing this you are giving your mind a better direction to move towards. You are taking a negative experience and utilising it, transforming it and purifying it into positive new learnings....

You are also expanding your positive frame of reference, which allows you to come up with a greater positive foundation of ideas and resources that help you to succeed in the future.

Remember your mind will always give you what you ask for!

Whenever you notice that your blaming yourself (for something that you didn't do :-S ... STOP, become aware of what's going on as it's happening, and use your mind in positive directions by asking yourself better questions to support your self worth.

Turn negative into positive, by asking the right questions! And be careful what your talking yourself into! :)

Hope this helps

- Nick

Do you do what you hate, Instead of what you love? Part 1

2009-04-02T13:49:00.000-07:00

Hello,

Let me ask you some important questions...

Are you happy about your life, your job, your relationship? Do you wake up in the morning feeling excited for the day ahead? Or do you hit the snooze button a dozen times before you finally drag yourself out of bed with a lousy attitude?

In life, most people tend to do what they hate, instead of what they love!

Let's stop for a second to consider this statement...

As you look around your general society today. Many people are unhappy, and what's even worse, they do things that don't really fulfill them.

They are, at least, dissatisfied with the quality of their lives, or want more, but have no clue how to get it.

But why is this?

For the most part it's either three of the following reasons.

A: You don't think you deserve to live the life of your dreams.

B: You are too afraid to start creating the life of your dreams!

C: You don't even think it's possible to create the life of your dreams!

Let's go into the first crucial step you MUST take before you can begin the process of living a better quality of life.

And that is, "You must FIRST become aware that YOU ARE NOT living the quality of life you deserve right now!"

YES! God did not put you here to be miserable, but there are alot of miserable people out there who don't even know it yet.

Instead of ignoring yourself though, start becoming aware of your REAL desires and start respecting yourself by doing that right now! This will start the process of growth!

The fact that you are becoming aware of your desires, is already self-respect within itself! Because you are finally beginning to acknowledge who you are and who you really want to become for the future.

We all have set-backs and frustrations. And I'm sure you also have goals and dreams - something more that you aspire to be in your life!

Instead of being a spectator at a boring football game that you don't like, get up off your ass and start becoming one of the active players in your life, who plays the active role and makes a significant difference to the game...

The FIRST step is to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the quality of your life, because nobody else will do it for you!

Once you take time to uphold yourself in this uplifting fashion, you will demonstrate for yourself true deservingness and personal power. Because your life becomes set by your OWN rules, not anybody else's!

This is how you can start doing what you love in life, instead of what you hate!

In the next issue I'm going to give you the solutions to the three set-backs that stop you from creating the life of your dreams so you can start achieving real success.

If you don't want to wait any longer - and your ready to gain the personal power to start achieving your dreams right now, grab the confidence CD while it's still available at this special low price.

Until next time,

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YOU ARE A BEAT-DOWN FAILURE!!!

2009-04-01T17:08:00.000-07:00

Dear reader,

Are you a beat-down failure?

Because...

There is no such thing as failure! No one can ever be a failure because failure represents giving up!

Just because you made a few mistakes doesn't mean that you should label yourself as a failure. Doing this only keeps you stuck in a limited label of identity.

As long as you keep getting back up and learning from your mistakes you are NOT a failure since you haven't decided to give up. Failure is actually a choice!

This is the main difference between those who succeed at achieving their goals and those that don't!

If Thomas Edison gave up on his initial mistakes when he was inventing the light bulb, his invention wouldn't exist and we'd be still using candles or some other form of lighting...

The fact is that Edison realized that by learning from every mistake he was able to lead up to the ultimate manifestation of achieving his dreams.

This principle is the same regarding every achievement that has been made throughout history.

If there was no such thing as mistakes we wouldn't be able to learn from them to make us smarter, stronger and more capable individuals.

Throw away the word failure and adapt the word 'flexibility' to yourself.

When you become flexible in your approach towards achieving your goals, whether it being self esteem/confidence or gaining more happiness, you can mould yourself into the person who owns this success over-time.

Just like how water is flexible enough to flow through the tiniest cracks. - Learning from your mistakes and being flexible is a core skill into achieving anything you want in life!

Once you build these new attitudes within yourself and make flexibility a part of your natural everyday identity, you will find yourself approaching life's challenges with more ease as you begin to create the life success and freedom you truly deserve.

So remember these two important points:

1. Failure means giving up!
And you should never give up on your dreams, EVER! You deserve to live a better quality of life so go for it with all your MIGHT!

2. Be flexible!
Once you become flexible you are able to learn from your mistakes, move
closer towards achieving your goals, create more choice
and increase your chances to attain ultimate life success.

The power is inside of you so make this choice right now to improve
your success and self worth once and for all!

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Keys To Personal Power Today!

2009-03-31T12:54:00.000-07:00

Personal power means your ability to take action and move towards the pursuit of your goals.

Many of us have goals, but 99% of us never seem to achieve them. Why is this?

It's because they don't take action!

To really achieve what you want in life you must consistently take action, learn from your mistakes and continue to mold yourself into the person you want to be to the point where you succeed.

The main difference between the celebrities, musicians and high achievers, as opposed to those who fail, is that achievers TAKE ACTION! This is what sets people apart in life.

It would be pointless to set a goal if you didn't achieve it. That's why personal power is a vital key to becoming the successful person you desire to be in life.

When you learn how to set goals and take action 'daily' towards the attainment of your dreams, you begin to create and design your life the way you want it to be.

By virtue of the rules of commitment and consistency you will develop a success habit that ultimately serves you!

The best way to keep yourself motivated when you create your dreams, is to recognize and appreciate yourself for every accomplishment (no matter how small) that you make towards the attainment of your goals.

Once you start the process of achieving your goals, your life becomes more fulfilling as you acknowledge yourself for the growing progress that's constantly unfolding before your eyes.

Don't take action two or three times and give up like so many people (that don't succeed) often do!

Because there isn't really such thing as failure at all. You can only fail in life if you give up, meaning, you stop moving towards the pursuit of your goals. But as long as your doing something (no matter how small) towards the attainment of your dreams you are always in the winning lane.

To write a book you must do it one page at a time, to build a house you must do it one brick at a time. Temples can be literally built from dust!

This principle is the same with the success you want to create in your life! The more you take action, the better you become at taking action!

Start making your goals easier for yourself, take little steps each day and build on your continuous success. Use your personal power! Right now! As your reading this article, stop for a moment to think of two things you can do that will move you closer towards the attainment of your goals. It can be anything! Making a phone call, picking up a book or telling someone you appreciate them!

Take that first step forward and start utilizing your natural born personal power!

Your ability to TAKE ACTION daily and create your dreams!

All the best success in your happiness,

Nicholas Finnegan

The Life Innovator

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If You Need Self Esteem, the Fact That You Need Self Esteem Will Make You Attain it Right Now!

2009-03-13T08:07:00.000-07:00

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If you need self esteem, your already half way there to building the quality of life that you deserve. Why? Because needing more out of your life is one of the biggest important traits for anyone who has good self esteem.

Those who don't need more in their lives tend to settle for less than they deserve. But by virtue of the fact that you're in need to build more self esteem already demonstrates to yourself that you are willing to do what it takes to succeed in life!!

Now... as you find your self esteem rising you may begin to notice that the quality of your desires for more happiness, self worth and self respect begins to grow stronger... And the more this need... deep down inside... begins to increase, the more you'll begin to notice more positive opportunities presenting themselves into your everyday life.

By thinking about what you really want in life, and by visualizing yourself feeling good - talking to yourself in positive ways and moving your body in ways that demonstrates confidence and happiness, you will begin to feel better about yourself.

Utilize your desire to need self esteem and you will run into new positive opportunities to build it, just like you are doing now. And why stop there? Would you like to gain more confidence, build a better relationship, change your financial situation?? All of these things are possible when you need them, when you desire more out of your life.

When you want something your less likely to go after it, but when you NEED something you'll do anything to get it.

The whole idea is to turn your wants into needs, and to turn your needs into your physical reality.

You can do this just like many others are already doing this everyday. "Turning that need for self esteem" into social exuberance, personal power, self appreciation and positive feelings that allow you to feel good about yourself.

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A New Video!!

2009-02-03T23:52:00.000-08:00

Hello, I've put up another new video that show's you how to heal your negative feelings and take control of your internal representations.

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By discovering how your negative feelings arise, you can learn how to utilize the undeniable power of your awareness to change and heal your negative emotions.

Your mind is very good at taking ideas/conclusions from your daily life and set's out to make them a more-or-less permanant part of your habitual thought processes.

By learning how to interrupt negative processes and replace them with positive ones, you will begin to feel good on a daily basis automatically and with little effort. Check out this exclusive video to learn more...

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You are in complete control of your thoughts and emotions! Many of us are led to believe that we can't change the way how we feel, the following video shatters this belief once and for all!

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The Lies About Self Esteem Clothing Finally Revealed!

2009-02-01T12:21:00.000-08:00

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Have you ever thought about buying some clothes to raise your self esteem?? Well let's get down to the facts. Buying clothes will not raise your self esteem, infact it will only lower your self esteem. Why? because your clothes becomes a representation of your self esteem and not the other way around.

For many years we are taught to look fashionable with the clothes we wear so we can keep up with the trends of modern society.

Your self esteem is a very important aspect of your life. It determines your capability, your self love, your happiness, your self worth , your deservingness and many more important traits that contribute to the quality of your life...

There is a big difference between your quality of self as opposed to the clothes you buy to mask your true sense of individuality and identity.

Your identity is far more important than clothes you put on-top of yourself. If you rely on clothes to make yourself feel better then you unfortunately have no real self esteem, because once you take those clothes away your self esteem goes away with it.

In other words a person that does this starts to rely on external influences to make themselves feel good, instead of feeling good within themselves about themselves, by themselves.

It's almost like an addiction, something that they have to keep going back to again and again otherwise the person feels deprived.

Once you build self esteem for yourself, within yourself, you'll be able to feel good about yourself no matter where you are or what clothes you wear.

This is very important...

You will begin to walk through the world with confidence and self assurance that radiates from your heart and soul, not from your clothes.

This is what true self esteem is, your ability to radiate positive energies for yourself and others without relying on external influence to dictate your positive feelings.

You will begin to feel good about yourself no matter what you wear because you have a powerful self esteem rooted deep within your identity as a human being.

Your heart, mind and body is much more important than pieces of cloth with labels stuck on and a price tag, you will do well to realize this when it concerns your self esteem success.

This obviously doesn't mean that you can't have nice things, but you must start focusing on what you really deserve...

You deserve all the love in your life thats coming to you, the peace and the self worth that you desire! So don't let people fool you into believing that you need to buy clothes before you start feeling good about yourself

There are many programs, courses and books out there that will enhance your self worth and happiness deep inside of yourself by using your mind, body and feelings to enhance your quality of life.

In a moment you will learn some new ways how you can do this today...

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Unlock The Key To Personal Change! Discover The Power Of Linking!

2009-02-01T12:10:00.000-08:00

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Simple Self Esteem = Easy Self Esteem...

2009-01-05T14:39:00.000-08:00

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Dear Friend,

You can have easy self esteem!

You can build a compelling future that is so appealing, that it becomes everything you want to live for. How do you want to be feeling about yourself 4 days from now? And do you think there is a limit to how far you can go?

Because there isn't...

The dreams you imagine in your future, with a sense of opened possibility, not only fills you up with great excitement, but also imprints the believability to create it. The better your dreams are, the more compelling your life will become! The more glorious you envision your future to be, the more it will propel you to create it.

That's why its so useful to in-vision a future that drives you. It's just about finding out what's most important to you! And using the correct tools to create it easily!

Use Your Focus, Intent and Action!

The worlds most greatest leaders, speakers and celebrities all have one thing in common. They have unshakable intent and take action towards their dreams and desires despite what anyone else thinks, and no matter what obstacles get in their way.

You already use your intent everyday, you use your intent to exercise and have fun at a party, you go into a party with the intent to have fun. Your intent and action has brought you to my website and it has resulted in you reading this right now!

You can use this same intent and action that you use everyday to build your self esteem and confidence beyond measure and without effort.

With a few decisions you can start using your intent RIGHT NOW!

If you want to achieve fascinating results quickly, make the decision right now to intend to do so!

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Keys to Life Innovation! Unleash the Power Today!

2008-11-27T08:47:00.000-08:00

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Keys To Life Innovation!

For you or anyone else to become a life innovator you need to have a plan! This plan must be infused with a clear mind and good self esteem.

To become a life innovator means to invent and re-invent your life to create the life-style you deserve. This means freeing yourself from confusion, pain, judgments and taking control of your destiny.

Steps you need to take:

1. Make sure you know what you want.

2. Make sure you have good self esteem to keep yourself on the right path.

3. Make sure you stay motivated and learn from your mistakes.

4. Make sure you are goal oriented. Nothing is worse than innovating your life without a set of powerful goals in mind.

Now once you know you can do all this, your already on your way to starting your life innovation process.

The most important thing you need to innovate your life is to have good self esteem. Innovated self esteem techniques keep you powerful in the pursuit of your innovation endeavors.

Most people seek life innovation because they are fed up of being told what to do or are fed up of settling for less in life and/or desire more out of life!

For you to be here reading this right now means you have already taken the right steps to manifesting life innovation. Your inner resources will become unlimited for you to adapt and maneuver around the rough edges of your life.

Now, the next step you need to take is to use the three steps and your self esteem to manifest life success and design the life you deserve...

Most people have no clue what life innovation is. It is a very rare subject that is underground in the personal development world...

Follow these three steps and you are already on your way to Life Innovation. Be prepared for the process thats about to take place. It will be a miraculous one if you know what your doing and have good self esteem to guide your success.

So after reading this article you have decided that life innovation is exactly what you need.

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The Effects of Low Self Esteem Can Be Changed Instantly!!

2008-11-27T08:44:00.000-08:00

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Low self esteem can have drastic effects on a persons life. Thats why it's so useful to gain higher self esteem right now...

The effects of low self esteem include:

Negative Behaviors

This could be about your capabilities, your worth, past experiences or future goals. Anything any other human being has done you can do aswell, thats why low self esteem is insignificant. All it takes is for you to start using your body in new ways to make yourself feel better. The great thing about this is you can do this in an INSTANT! I mean RIGHT NOW, start using your body in positive ways. Do a silly dance and make yourself laugh. Good self esteem boils down to putting a smile on your face.

Negative Thoughts

Another useless trait of low self esteem. Imagine if you were charged for every thought that you had. For every positive thought you were given $10 and for every negative thought you were charged $100, would you still like to have negative thoughts? For the most part negative thoughts will suck your good feelings away and (as a metaphor) empty out your wallet or purse if your not careful. Stop negative thoughts or you'll be emotionally broke for a long time.

Negative Feelings

Negative feelings are a result of having negative thoughts. If you have a negative thought you can guarantee you will feel a negative feeling. If you want to change this start having positive thoughts and you'll start to have positive feelings. Purposely spend a few minutes a day to think some positive thoughts about yourself. It doesn't matter how large or small, just do it! You'll feel much better for it :)

With these three traits that make up your overall self image and self esteem, you can change these around and start using them in positive directions that serve you RIGHT NOW. Whenever you catch yourself moving your body negatively, thinking negatively or having a negative feeling, STOP, and do the positive opposite instead!

Start thinking positive thoughts, move your body in ways that make you smile! Doing these things regularly will allow you to feel good. With repetition you will interrupt low self esteem symptoms once and for all and wake up to the horizon of creating a happier life.

The key here is once you make yourself feel good, praise yourself for it. Allow your feelings of self appreciation to expand.

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6 Powerful Advantages of Self Esteem Success!

2008-11-27T08:42:00.000-08:00

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There are many positive advantages of having good self esteem. To name a few...

You become resilient! You gain that ability to bounce back from situations that have been difficult to deal with in the past. You learn from your mistakes and re-approach the situation with more learning and confidence.

You become happy! YES!! Happiness!! Isn't this what we are all looking for? To be happy in life and project a vibrating sense of joy and charisma!? Once you radiate a wonderful sense of happiness people will flock to you as someone who brights up the world wherever you go...

You Become Self Assured! Nothing will ever stop you from standing your ground and protecting your loved ones with a powerful self assurance that is unshakable! Self assurance isn't only useful when you are in confrontational situations, but is also very handy when you need to take the lead in a social project or challenge. People will eventually look up to you as someone to follow as a leader...

You Become Respectful To Others! Once you have healthy self esteem you start to respect yourself and your emotions! With this new skill you are able to respect others also! To respect yourself is knowing how to respect others and with this self esteem trait people will be able to trust you and rely on you whenever they feel down. You'll also be able to rely on yourself if you ever feel down.

You Become Motivated To Achieve Your Goals! Your life's goals and dreams are very important to you; They are a part of you and signify your ability to grow and achieve as a human being. With core self esteem you are able to unleash your personal power and drive yourself to manifest the life you desire! You deserve to live the life your dreams, and with healthy self esteem you are able to make your dreams come true with unstoppable confidence.

You Become Lovable and Feel Loved By Yourself! One of the most important traits of self esteem is feeling love and your ability to spread love to others. Love is probably the most powerful force on the planet! Love stops wars, love creates children, love causes people to get married and love brings people together. You have this untapped power within yourself right now, did you ever guess?? Use this power today and allow it to unfold into every area of your life. Not only will you heal your pain, it will also heal the pain of others around you.

These are just only a few advantages of higher self esteem. There are many more, that's why self esteem is so important to keep a healthy balanced life-style. With healthy self esteem you become the ruler of your life and the dictator of your daily success.

Self esteem is power and grace at the same time! It expands and grows depending on how much you feed your self worth and happiness.

Everybody deserves to have high self esteem, especially YOU!

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Boys Self Esteem in School and in the Hood!

2008-11-27T08:40:00.000-08:00

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Boys self esteem can be built in many different ways and can vary from different ages. Boys who are in school deal with alot of 'size' and puberty issues! These can include the size of muscles, hair and is not limited to penis size either.

The best way to build your self esteem is to 'work-out' and do some sports activities. Anybody is capable of doing this, it doesn't matter if you are good in class, you can also be a great sportsman too. You'll find once you become powerful inside class and on the field you'll gain much more respect from your classmates.

If sports is not your thing your self esteem will boil down to your ability to 'cope' in confrontational situations. For males who are still in school you will find alot of competitiveness. The guy who can stand his ground in a fight gets respect, the guy who makes everyone laugh will get respect and the guy who has alot of female friends will get respect from other boys.

It's a shame that children in school these days can be so shallow; But for you to survive you must have some sort of edge over the other boys in school to stand out.

For you to become popular or good at anything you must have good self esteem, you must believe that you can achieve in what you do!

To build your self esteem start working on yourself. Instead of beating yourself up or letting other people verbally abuse you, start working on your best qualities. Seek to expand them to become stronger. It's also very necessary to start learning from your weaknesses and seek to build on your strengths.

True self esteem represents your ability to turn your negative thoughts, feelings and fears into solutions. The faster and easier you can do this for yourself and others the more you will get respect.

Most importantly your self image is what determines your success. Do you believe that you can succeed and come out on top? What are your opinions about yourself? Are these opinions based on what others have told you? Or do they come from yourself?

It doesn't matter how incapable you think you are, IT IS FALSE! You are equipped with trillions of positive resources you can use to be top dog right now!

You are not a loser, you are a success! You must realize this for yourself FIRST before anyone else can realize this. Most boys in school act 'fake' because they don't have any real self esteem, they cover up their incapability and stupidity with arrogance and lies.

You don't need to lower yourself down to their level. Seek to unleash your authentic self into the world. Your authentic self is the self that dwells underneath all the negative assumptions and opinions. Your authentic self is your TRUE SELF, your true potential.

Once you align your authentic self with your self image (the opinion you have about yourself) you'll be top dog at everything you do, Sports, classwork and flirting with girls :D

Become likable by first liking yourself and other people will like you too!

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Start Overcoming Low Self Esteem Right Now! Heal Your Pain!

2008-11-27T08:33:00.000-08:00

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The easiest way for you to start overcoming low self esteem is to realize that your negative past does Not equal your positive future success.

Meaning, no matter how much frustration or pains you've had in the past, the past is now gone, and this present moment is a fresh new opportunity to start creating the life you deserve.

Many people hang onto the pains of their past and this tends to keep them stuck in a whirlpool of self doubt.

The past is nothing but a memory! For anyone to feel bad about their self esteem they must first access their memories to remember how to feel bad.

Your past is actually a recourse for you to learn from...

You have the ability to access negative memories and positive memories alike. The main key here is your future self esteem is effected by which memories you currently decide to live with.

If your negative past means to you that you have become stronger and you have learned to not feel bad about yourself ever again, then this is going to benefit you. But if you remember your negative past and attach the meaning of failure and inadequacy, this is going to have a devastating effect on your self esteem.

To overcome your low self esteem means to overcome the meaning you have attached to your negative memories.

Remember that your negative memories are not necessarily real because they are not happening in this present moment in time. They happened ages ago.

Most people think that they should listen to their past. When a negative feeling or thought pops up they think they should act on it, but this is simply not true.

What is true is that in any moment you have the ability to re-justify yourself, your past and your capability in positive directions that serve you.

This system is very powerful to overcome low self esteem and past traumatic experience thats been holding you back from creating success.

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Powerful Self Esteem Journal For Daily Success!

2008-11-27T08:31:00.000-08:00

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Keeping a self esteem journal is very handy for keeping track of your progress, after all, if you never keet track of your progress you may never know if you made any progress in the first place.

At the end of each day take out your journal and go through this exercise:

1. Write down all the things you tried that didn't work out the way you wanted it to

2. Write down what you learned from these experiences and how they have added to your recourses for success in the future.

3. Write down all the things you did that worked

4. Write down how you have benefited from what has worked and how it has helped you to succeed for the future

Do this everyday just before you go to bed and you'll begin to notice daily changes in your attitude towards life. You will become aware of what you want in your life and this will propel you to accomplish your daily goals.

Journals are great because being specific about your achievements and becoming excited about what you learn everyday, is the key to expanding your future possibility. Goals are set in the future, the present is where all the power is to create, and your past represents all the recourses you have learned as a human being.

Learn from your past - keep yourself fulfilled in this present moment - and imagine yourself in the future living the lifestyle you deserve.

Stop for a moment to imagine yourself in the future and make the images big bright and appealing, feel the feelings they make you feel and become addicted to this exciting feeling everyday, and use it to motivate you to create your dreams.

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Don't Maintain Self Esteem, It's More Powerful to Create Self Esteem Instead!

2008-11-27T08:29:00.000-08:00

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Many of us go through life trying to maintain things. We maintain our jobs , our relationships, or health, our friendships our houses...

But there isn't that much excitement in maintenance.

To maintain something is to help keep alive or to "survive" If an animal is wounded your job is to maintain it's wellbeing until it becomes healthy again.

But what happens when the animal is already healthy, you play with it and have fun with it don't you.

The level of success you have created in your life right now, whether huge or small, doesn't need to be maintained because you have already achieved it. Whats more important for you is to start creating MORE OF THIS SUCCESS!

With 'creation' comes expansion of success and possibilities.

The creative mind-set is focused on growth. For example: What else can be achieved other than the success you've already created...

If you are ill you can create better health. Creation has no limit but maintenance is justified by preserving something.

Maintenance is NOT expansive.

Life is not about ducking and diving and escaping punishment. It's a gift and a position you have been offered to become a coordinator of your daily positive reality.

With a positive creative mind-set, you'll start to noticing wonderful opportunities to do new things right before your eyes.

It's an opportunity to grow and expand your self esteem.

Start taking this creative opportunity mind-set into your life and start thinking of some goals you want to achieve.

If you earned £250 per week, how would you like to create £300 per week?

If you are maintaining your relationship, imagine if you came up with new ideas to have more fun and passion.

If you are maintaining your weight by dieting, imagine if you started working-out to become fitter with a system of motivation that works up a good sweat and builds more muscle!

Don't maintain the quality of your life, but seek to constantly expand it by creating and achieving your self esteem goals for future success.

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Self Esteem Help is Here For You All the Time!!

2008-11-27T08:25:00.000-08:00

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Get self esteem help by helping yourself. This is the most powerful way you can your build self esteem.

There are generally two ways your self esteem is effected...

External influences

These are all of the criticism's that come from outside of yourself. For example, people, parents, friends bullies etc...

The second is...

Internal Influences

This is how you treat yourself as a person. How you talk to yourself inside of your mind, how you feel and the decisions you make.

The first step to helping yourself gain self esteem is to start protecting yourself from negative external influences.

When people are mean or verbally abusive don't just put up with it!! Do your best to protect your dignity and self image. The more you do this the more your self esteem will increase and you'll start to feel better about yourself.

The second step is to start complimenting yourself. Do good things for yourself that make you feel good. Start thinking positive thoughts about yourself so you can feel comfortable and get used to feeling positive feelings.

Even if you feel like your not making any progress, the reality is YOU ARE! The fact is that you have to keep going; The moment you give up is the moment when your self esteem starts to diminish.

Life is all about building positive habits that serve you. If you feel bad about yourself this only means that you have a habit that hasn't been working for you.

To change how you feel and increase your self esteem, you need to start building positive habits of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that contribute to your future self esteem success.

You deserve to spend some time for yourself to increase your self esteem. You are WORTH the investment and time! So use your energy to start this process today!

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Simple Self Esteem = Easy Self Esteem...

2008-11-22T08:30:00.000-08:00

Improve Your Self Esteem

2008-11-22T08:25:00.000-08:00

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Hello my dear reader,

Stop and ask yourself what's wrong with the following statement:

I don't like myself, I always fail!!

The main point I want to express here is that this statement focused on the negative aspects of a person's life.

The REAL question you need to be asking yourself is...

How can I improve my self worth, charisma and health in the areas of life that I really want to make a significant improvement on?

Ask yourself this question, and you'll get a completely different set of answers!

At least this way you're directing your mind towards the positive ideas you want, instead of the negative - And doing this formula will give you what you really want!

If you use all your precious time, focus and energy on what you didn't want and what you don't like about yourself, it will eventually become a habit that you want to get rid of!

Ask yourself the following questions...

How can I use this simple understanding to my benefit?

And how does asking myself this question contribute to my sense of well-being in the areas that matter to me most?

And is this an example of focusing on directions that start to manifest what i really want out of my life?

If your answers are YES, you are finally using your time, focus and energy in directions that build positive sets of new understandings!

Does your thought processes move towards positive ideas, thoughts, behaviors and feelings in regards to yourself on a daily basis, or did they make you feel bad?

Whatever you did in the past doesn't matter, because you can now make the choice to use your precious time, focus and energy towards positive ideas in regards to yourself and your life to build better habits and beliefs thats serve you from now on so they eventually become what you do naturally everyday.

So after reading this article have you decided on the best self esteem building system? The best one I recommend and the one which I use to dramatically increase my self worth which works wonders is Higher Self Esteem and More...

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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Love and Self Esteem

2008-11-22T08:22:00.000-08:00

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Dear Friend,

We don't fall in love when we are in the company of someone, we fall in love when we are off by ourselves thinking about them afterwards.

Its quite clear that we enjoy being in each others company and like having fun together. And its also plainly obvious that a butt naked angel called cupid doesn't shoot an arrow into our butt.

But it is when you are on your own and you find yourself thinking about someone in such a unique way, that allows you to list all the qualities about them you really like, and imagine yourself with them connecting together with the flow of your personalities, is when a feeling of love begins to take place deep inside of you. And although you may try push these feelings down or talk yourself out of them, you only find it comes back 10 times more powerful than ever before, allowing you to fall into deeper emotional states of falling for this person during moments of the day. With me, according to my experiences with people, theres always potential connections that can be built between us as human beings.

When you recall a time in your past when you fell in love, where you then able to stay cool, in control of yourself and the relationship? Or where you calling that person everyday, always wanting to see them, thinking about them and eager to experience a growing connection with them?

Heres the point: We do not fall in love by "tripping" over or falling into a "hole!" Love is a process we do to ourselves! And there are always new ways to discover how love can manifest between us - to the point where you act upon it right now!

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

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2008-06-27T11:39:00.000-07:00

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What you want, what you don't want

2008-05-22T05:00:00.000-07:00

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Dear friend,

Wherever you are in your life right now in terms of how you feel about yourself, your self esteem, your level of confidence, whether you feel anxiety, stress, frustration... etc...

You must now start your journey towards changing these problems around into new learnings and experiences that serve you from now on...

To start this process you must first accept these problems and fully come to terms with your current life circumstances; Its only once you do this you can start moving towards what you want, allowing you to measure your ongoing results and overcome limitations more easily.

First, lets focus on what you really want because this is much more important. You want to move towards what you want, not what you don't want.

So while your here...

What are some of the feelings, beliefs and new habits that you really want for yourself and to experience in your life? What will truly full-fill you if you had it right now? And what would these experiences be like once you have them?

Write out a small list.

Now that you have become clearer about what you want and how you will feel once you have it. Let us figure out what gets in your way of achieving these goals.

Write down a list and think of all the habits, beliefs and/or actions that you do or feel on a daily basis that prevent you from achieving your goals.

What limitations do you have right now?

And If they weren't there, how much closer would you be to achieving your goals?

How much more easier would it be to create what you want, without limitations?

As you address your limitations you may find that they come in forms of...

"I want to achieve this, but...."

Or...

""I cant create a better life, because..."

Figure out and write down a list of all the things that prevent you from gaining what you really want.

Once you begin to become aware of these hindrances, you will be able to learn from them in ways that empower you, and use these positive new learnings to make you stronger and move closer towards your future achievements.

Remember, that it is more important to focus on and move towards what you want to create in your life!

Its not a good thing to wait, but its not a good thing to rush either.

Don't invest your time and energy in negative emotions anymore, only use them as a means of reminding you of what you have set out to create in your life.

Sincerely,

Nicholas Finnegan

To be a follower or to be an individual, that is the question.

2008-05-11T13:22:00.000-07:00

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Dear friend,

There is a big difference between what you think you want and what will truly and deeply fulfill you.

As you ponder about what your life is like right now, do you find that everything you have is a result of what you've been taught to chase after, or is it a result of what you chose and deeply want to be filled up with?

A dog needs an owner to teach it what to do, an owl is wise enough to figure it all out on it's own.

The owl is its own being. It studies carefully and awareness becomes expanded when a task needs to be completed, such as eating a small rabbit, a mouse and their favorite dish - skunk.

The dog rely's on an owner to be fed and cared for. It scurries around looking for food and picks up the scraps people leave behind, even if they know it isn't good for them, and most of the time aren't even aware of it in the long run.

The dog learns habits, where as the owl chooses and creates them!

Owls live in many places. Owls live in tree trunks, farms, in bushes, in forests. Sometimes owls live in old buildings, barns and even cactus's.

Dogs either sleep inside an owners house or stray outside in the cold. A few of them even get locked up in cages.

So...

As you begin to become as wise as the owl, you will find your sense of possibility and self beginning to expand. As a wiser person you will find you have complete choice to create whatever you want in life without limitation.

Once you adapt to this mindset (the mindset of individuality and wisdom) and begin to make this attitude more apparent for yourself in your life today... Would you still be living the life you currently have right now?

... I didn't think so!

... Because you begin to live your life based on your own decisions and what will truly and deeply fulfill you as a person in your life, NOT what other people think or have taught what is best for you to do and/or be.

In the end... Its all up to you!

Sincerely,

Nicholas Finnegan

Life secret on a drunken bus ride!

2008-05-11T11:20:00.000-07:00

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Dear friend,

Life sucks! Why does everything have to suck! Why does this always have to happen to me!?? Life sucks!

This is the sort of attitude I had towards life before I figured out another secret of self esteem success that im about to share with you...

When I was about 18 I got very drunk and started talking to myself on the way home. I was on the bus, it was 3.00 am, there was only one other person on the bus sitting across from me, she was a middle aged woman looking out of the window.

"life is shit!" I screamed! "why cant I just die!"

Little did I know she was about to show me the path to revealing yet another secret...

After speaking to her for a while and then getting off the bus I came to be in walking distance from my house. Pondering on what she said, feeling very disoriented - I walked into my front door, ran down the stairs to my room, took out my note book and started writing another secret down...

This is what she told me, written down in my own words at the age of 18 years old while I was still drunk...

When you think about which direction you are heading in life, which one is it? Forward or backward?

I am guessing that you are gaining in life and moving forward, otherwise you wouldn't be here reading this as you take in more knowledge and becoming happier in life.

Now... as you begin to move towards your goals, you may find yourself getting close to them as each day goes by, whether if you achieve massive accomplishments or small accomplishments alike.

And there is also a way to speed up this process and make it more fun...

How?

Simply by realizing for yourself that creating what you want "is a never ending process" Meaning up until now you have already chosen to move towards what you really want, haven't you? So you will only become more stronger from now on, whether if its a little bit at a time or massive action.

This should be a relief!

It doesn't matter what setbacks you are going through now or what you were going through in the past because becoming stronger "is forever an ongoing process" and you are always moving forward and learning from your experiences into the future.

So you can never lose!

As you think about accepting this principle and and having a willingness to move through the world with it, how much more easier does life become as you realize you are always participating in "a forever ongoing process of future growth!"

It is inevitable that you will only become more of who you are as you have already chosen to move towards what you want

Life is "a forever future ongoing process of growth", so allow your frustrations to melt away and realize for yourself that you are always becoming more of who you are no matter what happens each and everyday!

As you think about your life in this way, how much more are you willing to grow and allow success to naturally unfold ahead of you.

Your possibility of awareness is always expanding!

- END

To your success

Sincerely,

Nicholas Finnegan

Gaining Self-Confidence

2008-03-27T14:23:00.000-07:00

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Dear friend,

Next to self-esteem we would all like to feel an inner sense of gaining self-confidence. Many of us mix the attributes of self-esteem and confidence up, they are both uniquely different and they actually compliment each-other really well.

However this course is all about raising your confidence levels...

Now, there are generally three types of confidence:

- Performance confidence

- Self-confidence

- And Confidence in the company of others

Performance confidence is described as being really good at doing a particular activity or skill. This particular form of confidence usually comes from doing something over and over again so many times that it becomes easily to execute.

Depending on our tanisity levels, difficult tasks can be very easy to learn, where as others may find certain tasks requires more of an effort.

For example: For different people learning to fix a bike could be easier than learning to do a back hand-spring. Performance confidence comes with continuous practice, the more you practice doing something the more you will find inner self-assurance beginning to grow as tasks become more easy to do.

Now, Self-confidence and inner self-assurance is described as what you believe you are capable of, it is that inner sense of self confidence based on how high you believe your level of being able to feel confident within yourself can rise.

For example: If you feel confident about your skills and capability to learn and grow you are more likely to feel more secure within yourself and move through the world with more ease based on the situations you find yourself. and that will continue to grow as you do!

Self-confidence complements performance confidence really well. The more reasons and evidence you have for why you should feel more confident within yourself the more confident you are likely to feel as you do new things! In a sense its a one-way street, there is no opposing traffic!

And last but not least, Confidence in Company! Which is an extension of self-confidence and performance confidence, ultimately creates LIFE CONFIDENCE.

When you can learn to feel confident about your skills and communicate with others effectively, you gain a sense of free-er self-expression that is not thwarted by negative attacks or external circumstances. Your contribution to the world is 'just' and is energized by the display of your personality!

Events and situations are sometimes un-controllable but you can always rely on yourself to feel confident and express to others that a strong energy is always around to support them.

These 3 types of confidence(s) I have laid out for you display a great foundation you can start working on.

If you want to gain higher levels of confidence within yourself, trying something new performance-wise will allow you to do so, especially if its in an area of life you really want. Feeling more confident around others will help you to become more confident performance-wise, and feeling more confident performance-wise and social-wise will allow you to feel more confident about yourself. And thus the spiral goes round and around like a formula 1 racing wheel.

To build more overall confidence you should seek out to practice in each of these areas to build more confidence, notice your growing progress and start in which ever area feel right for you!

So your task for today is to write down two things you would like to improve your confidence in, in each of the three areas we have been discussing.

What do you want to feel more self confidence about?

Self-confidence

1.

2.

Which area in life to you want to perform better in?

Performance confidence

1.

2.

In which types of social situations do you want to be at your absolute best?

Confidence in company

1.

2.

Soon I will show you some extra techniques, tips and exercises you can do to speed up this process of building overall LIFE CONFIDENCE and more ease in a way that allows you to become stronger and happier today about your life!

Do and feel in the ways you really want to feel about yourself and expand this into your daily life.

All the best,

Nicholas Finnegan

Self Esteem Exercises

2008-03-27T14:19:00.000-07:00

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Dear friend,

Welcome to the self esteem exercises page. Let me share with you some of the ways how you can manifest the new thoughts, feelings and behaviors that build higher self esteem for the near future.

Here is the first understanding...

Whatever you focus on, you feel because your mind cannot tell the difference between what you imagine as being real and what you actually experience. In other words what you consistently focus on and imagine in your mind eventually becomes your future self-esteem.

What you focus on, and imagine yourself doing on a consistent basis determines how you’re going to be feeling about yourself on a daily basis.

...the second understanding...

Thus if you imagine and mentally rehearse yourself in positive scenarios feeling good about yourself and reacting in the ways that you want in those troubled situations that used to bother you: your mind will naturally take these mental impressions as being part of your new higher self esteem reality!

The mind learns and adapts to whatever you habitually focus on, on a consistent basis!

The Key Here Is To Design In A New Habit Of Higher Self-Esteem and More... Awareness By Rehearsing it!!

So now that you are aware of this understanding let me introduce to you a model that will enable you to build more Higher self esteem…

Self appreciation process
(This exercise will enable you to raise self appreciation levels with just about anything you want!)

First: Think of a positive thought or idea about yourself. (Even if it isn't true just yet...)

Second: Notice the positive feelings that come from thinking about these positive ideas about yourself (because positive thoughts equal positive feelings)

Third. Stop for a moment to appreciate yourself for the fact that you have just made yourself feel good about what you just thought about: Therefore you can feel good about the things you want! (Can't you...?) Just by doing steps one, two and three.

And…Fourth. Be grateful that you can manifest "feeling good about yourself" - and build ON a never ending process of self-worth and higher-self appreciation.

(Actively go over these steps until it sinks in! And do the process over and over again until it feels more comfortable!!)

This is a 4 step key to manifesting your self-esteem in any area of life you choose, not to mention total life success! Why? Because rehearsing the things you want in life in ways that allow you to feel like you already own them within, will create a chain reaction of inner-fulfillment - a stronger inner sense of self-worth and passion - multiplying and growing throughout your everyday living because you are appreciating yourself to feel better about the future.

Very soon you will begin to react confidently with positive ideas - which will bring positive new experiences your way; and this will reinforce more positive reasons for why you should feel good about yourself even more... which in turn increases your higher self-esteem.

Can you remember when somebody gave you a compliment? Such as “You’re a great person” – Well first you considered it, you felt good about the idea, you appreciated the fact that someone complemented you, then you were grateful about yourself and the whole experience of feeling like the great person you are - and will be... Win Win Win!
Can you see a pattern forming here?

Get Used To This Pattern!

- What are three positive aspects that you can think about yourself? and want to feel about yourself?

- As you think about already having these qualities in your life, how does it feel inside of your body? (And notice where you feel it)

- Now thank yourself for the fact that you have the ability to make yourself feel good just by doing these first three steps

- And now be grateful for the entire process you have done that allows you to feel good about yourself now and for the near future...

Get used to rehearsing this model throughout your daily life about the things you really want to manifest... practice makes perfect and you’ll begin to find yourself doing this exercise more and more easily and eventually AUTOMATICALLY, you will also find your personal power and self-esteem re-turning back into your awareness: Bringing you the ability to feel good about yourself dramatically in just a few short days - weeks!

YOU CAN make yourself FEEL GOOD!!!

Do this exercises as often as you will yourself to do so...

P.S. These principles and technique can be used in any area of your life that you truly want to manifest in! You will be kidding yourself to think that you cant..! You can use this exercise for literally ANYTHING positive you want to become used to feeling good about on a daily basis!

Do you have ideas about becoming fit and healthy? Building a business or taking a new course to receive a degree? Or increasing everyday happiness and morale? The choice is yours!

Continue to boost your life's self esteem,

Nicholas Finnegan

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The Confidence Plan!! Start creating success TODAY!

2008-03-25T10:19:00.000-07:00

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Dear friend,

I want to give you some tools that will propel you forward towards reaching your confidence goals in a way that is always expanding. After all each and every one of us experience certain setbacks when it comes to manifesting what we really want in life. Many of us have big goals and dreams for the future but we tend to put them up on a shelf and forget about them, perhaps we tried to take action but slowly gave up because we assumed we wasn't going anywhere.

What are the reasons for why you haven't set out to go after what you really want??

Why haven't you taken consistent action to create what you rightfully deserve in your life???

For most of us its the "fear of Failure!!"

Fear of not being able to achieve our goals, the fear of rejection, the fear of pain - all of these things and the overall risk factor of it all keeps us stuck. But when you really stop to think about it, what is the real risk here? Is it the risk of someone saying "No" or the ultimate risk of NEVER BEING ABLE TO CREATE THE TYPE OF LIFE YOU TRULY DESERVE!

After all isn't this the biggest risk? The risk of losing out!?

You see, if you tried to achieve something a couple of times and failed at it - it doesn't mean you should slowly leave and not do it anymore because of a momentary set-back! The key here is to keep trying and keep changing until you succeed!! If you fail once you must TRY SOMETHING ELSE and KEEP GOING!!

As soon as Thomas Edison first created the light bulb he was interviewed and the interviewer asked him a question, he asked him "How does it feel to have failed 10,000 times?" Edison replied "I didn't fail 10,000 times, I only found 10,000 ways that didn't work and so i knew it was only a matter of time before I figured out what WILL WORK!"

This is the exact same approach you should take when it comes to building life success and confidence, after all this is what confidence is! It represents the tanasity to keep learning and keep expanding until you succeed. The place you are at now in your life and where you desire to be IS A CHANGE! And its learning and changing towards our dreams that allows us to grow more as people! By constantly coming up with new ideas and skills on your journey towards obtaining self-confidence - your behaviours, feelings and reactions change in regards to how you view yourself as a person and how you view your overall life!

These changes are very subtle and i can say to you that as you continue to grow and imagine what your life will be like 10years from now - you'll look back and go "WOW I have grown so much!! I cant even believe that i had so many limitations to begin with!!!"

The more you take action towards creating your dreams the more that "decision action taking muscle" will be effortless to execute time and time again, in those areas of life that matter to you most and this will build even more self-esteem.

So why are you still sitting here reading this for?

TAKE ACTION TOWARDS YOUR GOALS DAILY UNTIL YOU SUCCEED!!

Confidence Plan

(Make a confidence plan for each of the three different areas including: Performance Confidence, Self-confidence and Social Confidence. And write down three answers for each separate question below)

1. what do you really want to achieve in your life?

2. What will achieving it give you back? And how will it make you feel once you have it?

3. When do you want to achieve it? (Set a realistic time limit and live up to it!)

4. Imagine what it will be like if you started taking action how would you be feeling significantly stronger two weeks from now?

5. Imagine yourself taking action everyday down your future time-line to the point where you reach your goals achievements! Whats it going to be like when you create it?

The great feelings you will experience once you have achieved your goals is what you are working your way towards. In other words you must focus on the RESULTS and to never let yourself, or anybody else or anything that happens stop you from making these dreams REAL!

You will achieve little results during your pursuits and these little results create the ultimate result, so be grateful for them and seek joy in these little moments of achievement!

There is no such thing as failure and you can NEVER fail at anything! Why? Because failure means learning and learning means growth; growth equals successful results and successful results create drive and passion to succeed; And Drive and passion starts this process all over again in the pursuite of another endeavour you want to achieve in.

Your personal power, as you can see, is full of unlimited possibility and potential, and from now on you must begin to utilise it on a daily basis, just as Thomas Edison did everyday!

Take action, be flexible in your approach, learn and ultimately succeed in your everyday life!

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Falling in Love... The Hidden Truth.....

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We don't fall in love when we are in the company of someone, we fall in love when we are off by ourselves thinking about them afterwards.

Its quite clear that we enjoy being in eachothers company and like having fun together. And its also plainly obvious that a butt naked angel called cupid doesn't shoot an arrow into our asses.

But it is when you are on your own and you find yourself thinking about someone in such a unique way, that allows you to list all the qualities about them you really like, and imagine yourself with them connecting together with the flow of your personalities, is when a feeling of love begins to take place deep inside of you. And although you may try push these feelings down or talk yourself out of them, you only find it comes back 10 times more powerful than ever before, allowing you to fall into deeper emotional states of falling for this person during moments of the day. With me, according to my experiences with people, theres always potential connections that can be built between us as human beings.

When you recall a time in your past when you fell in love, where you then able to stay cool, in control of yourself and the relationship? Or where you calling that person everyday, always wanting to see them, thinking about them and eager to experience a growing connection with them?

Heres the point: We do not fall in love by "tripping" over or falling into a "hole!" Love is a process we do to ourselves! And there are always new ways to discover how love can manifest between us - to the point where you act upon it right now!

Nicholas Finnegan

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A Powerful Princeble From My Book That Will Allow You to Create ULTIMATE Success Into Every Area of Your Life!

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WILL

What determines your results?

The ultimate power in being able to exercise your will.

Now, some people will refer to will as 'will power' but the word "power" attached to the end of the word will only confuses us when it comes to really understanding what our will truly is.

Most of us think of power as strength, position of authority or control

The word power added to the end of our own will, speaks in terms of effort or an ability that is used, possessed or has been gained.

But this doesn't help us to understand anything!

We understand that somebody can have the ability to do a cartwheel, or a speaker having the ability to produce sounds, or the human eye possessing the ability to see. But to speak of the ability to will, leaves us completely confused to understand how naturally EFFORTLESS our will really is.

Will: To make a reasoned choice, decision and action

In other words, force and effort is not required when using will. As will is being able to choose, decide and act.

We have the will to do so, as we have the freedom of choice. However, this does not mean we can do whatever we want.

You cannot make someone do something against their own will

A person 'could' make someone take action by making them feel scared or excited enough. But that someone chooses and acts based on their own decisions.

A person that is scared chooses to succumb to fear by their own decisions. Someone that is excited enough decides to act according to their own reasons.

You cannot make someone do something against their own reasons and decisions, because they reason and decide according to what they choose is best for them.

The notion of somebody making someone do something against their will - is ridiculous. When you tell someone to jump they don't automatically do it every time unless they have a reason or have chosen to do so.

We all possess the ability to will and this must not be mistaken with "will power", which means to apply effort to make a simple decision.

It doesn't take any effort to use your will. It's just a case of deciding to move your muscles and directing your focus in the directions you want.

Everybody has will - and for the person that has the typical "will power" label, is just someone that has become used to making decisions, and then acting upon them; as a result, they have unleashed the natural power we all possess within us.

The so called 'strongest will powered person in the world' has no power of will over you, as we all have the same ability to choose, decide, think and move alike. THE POINT HERE IS THAT WE ARE ALL USING THE SAME ABILITY!

Will is just a case of: will you? Or wont you?

If you will do something; then you will use your will to take action.

Trying to use power or force against your own ability to decide and act is pointless, because you'll only be resisting against your natural ability of body and mind.

When you can't be bothered to do something, you are really implying that you can't be bothered to move your own body.

If you end up fighting against yourself to take action, relax and start again - to gain the habit of being able to use your will naturally and effortlessly.

Above all, the choices and decisions you make in the present regarding your unbeneficial thoughts and behaviours that you are aware of, are completely your choice if you continue to persist in them. In other words, if you become aware of your negative thoughts or behaviours and continue to do them, that's your own choice.

Are you going to choose a direction that serves you or not?

If you do not make empowering, beneficial decisions in how you want to live your life; then you have already made a decision haven't you?

You have made the decision to be directed and controlled by your environment instead of creating the future you deserve.

Make decisions that benefit your life's higher self esteem.

Determination is directed focus and action, and action is what impacts your daily life.

Act upon your beneficial feelings and decisions. And use effortless will in life to reach the given end of your desired goals.

In a nutshell

1. Will "power" is described as effort and this is WRONG!

2. To will - is to make choices, decide and act

3. Get used to using your will until it naturally becomes effortless

5. Will you - or wont you?

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