Hello,
One of the most common problems people have is a lack of self reliance.
A client of mine was in a fabulous relationship, the girl of his dreams, but no matter how good things were, he was scared about losing her.
He admitted that the issues were all to do with him, he also pointed out that he was clingy.
He would tear himself to pieces inside when his girlfriend was away or when he was alone, he couldn't do anything by himself without her.
This is what I said to him:
"The only reason why you feel clingy and have no self belief when your not around her is because you are 'relying' on her to make you feel secure... That's why your clinging onto her, because your clinging onto the emotions that you get 'from her' when your with her."
I find that alot of the time with human interactions and relationships, it's not low self esteem or low self confidence; but it's the fact that your needing to feel something from people 'first' that will help you to get 'you' what you want.
In other words, a lack of self reliance!
For example: maybe you have been in a situation were you need to be around someone to feel secure. Or maybe you want people to verify your ability to feel confident. Or maybe you want people to make you feel happy about yourself 'for you'.
...And then only when they verify it 'for you', then after you can feel good about yourself; But 'if' they are not around, it goes away.
So to own your self belief and success you must stop relying on others to feel these things and instead, learn how to feel them for yourself.
In other words, once you realize that you don't need others to verify your desires for you, and that you can feel whatever you want within yourself all the time (no matter if other people are around or not) then you start to own your right to feel secure and believe in yourself all the time - wherever you go; Because you carry it around with you 'inside' as your own personal resource.
The key is that you gain inner access to these resources any time you want them.
When you stay comfortable in your ability to have choice and flexibility, in any situation, then you give yourself the permission to stay secure, happy and free.
In short, you become free from the 'dependence' of other people to feel confident, because you gain independence in your ability to stay successful within yourself - FOR YOURSELF!
To test this out... Stop for a moment and ask yourself if your waiting for someone to do something, or to tell you something, or to verify something for you, before you can start to feel good about yourself and act confidently..?
If you notice that you are, grab onto your personal responsibility to have more security - that supposed to be yours, and take rightful ownership of it to gain more personal power and independence with it from this moment on.
Sometimes it's not a confidence boost that you need, sometimes it's just about owning your energy and your given right to experience more of your own personal power.
You must NOT need people to feel good, but you must be secure and certain in your ability to be able to feel good because of 'you'!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
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Showing posts with label Self Belief. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self Belief. Show all posts
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Saturday, September 5, 2009
Hypnotic Beliefs!
Hello friends,
Below is a FREE ebook and audio with tools you can use to help build stronger positive beliefs as soon as possible.
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. For More FREE Success Audio's and Ebooks Go Here...
Below is a FREE ebook and audio with tools you can use to help build stronger positive beliefs as soon as possible.
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. For More FREE Success Audio's and Ebooks Go Here...
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Unleash Stealth Warrior Success Energy Tomorrow!!
Hello,
Ok this is how you live with alpha energy!
I've been saying in the past email that you have to release energy and un-tangle your energy to get greater results out of your life and to move through the world with abundance.
To release your energy you need to take on some new beliefs that will help to stream line your energy and awareness...
These beliefs are as follows:
"You expand on the constant unfolding success you are already feeling each and every day!"
"Anything negative that comes up, is coming up to be healed, handled, learned from or released!"
"You can learn to do anything and learning is fun!"
There are many more in the Stealth Warrior program....
The main idea of these beliefs are to play a continuous active assistance in your personal enhancement - and to resolve your stuck points and restrictions automatically (before they even turn up).
With these beliefs helping you to expand your awareness, your life become more smoother because you stream-line the process of success.
Now when you approach a new situation that could help you succeed, you will do it with a clear mind and with clear intentions.
Your blockages and weaknesses will begin to melt because you have beliefs that pre-suppose you can heal them whenever you want. This allows you to live with more freedom and unlock new realms of joy and passion.
Read the beliefs again... what would it by like if you could walk through the world knowing that you have these beliefs at your constant disposal?!
You may even find that your mind starts expanding as you read them...
The stealth warrior program works with the 'Dual Induction' technology to condition in these (stealth beliefs) and greater habitual processes for constant unfolding success!
After all, Success Is A Daily Process!
By releasing and healing the energies and complications that used to stop this process, this will allow you to get greater consistent results out of yourself on a daily basis; by virtue of the fact that you join in with energy flow and build a frame of mind with enhancing beliefs which can support it!
The Stealth Warrior Program is being launched on the 24/7/2009.
Get Yours On 24/7/2009!
All The Best Success,
Nicholas Finnegan
Ok this is how you live with alpha energy!
I've been saying in the past email that you have to release energy and un-tangle your energy to get greater results out of your life and to move through the world with abundance.
To release your energy you need to take on some new beliefs that will help to stream line your energy and awareness...
These beliefs are as follows:
"You expand on the constant unfolding success you are already feeling each and every day!"
"Anything negative that comes up, is coming up to be healed, handled, learned from or released!"
"You can learn to do anything and learning is fun!"
There are many more in the Stealth Warrior program....
The main idea of these beliefs are to play a continuous active assistance in your personal enhancement - and to resolve your stuck points and restrictions automatically (before they even turn up).
With these beliefs helping you to expand your awareness, your life become more smoother because you stream-line the process of success.
Now when you approach a new situation that could help you succeed, you will do it with a clear mind and with clear intentions.
Your blockages and weaknesses will begin to melt because you have beliefs that pre-suppose you can heal them whenever you want. This allows you to live with more freedom and unlock new realms of joy and passion.
Read the beliefs again... what would it by like if you could walk through the world knowing that you have these beliefs at your constant disposal?!
You may even find that your mind starts expanding as you read them...
The stealth warrior program works with the 'Dual Induction' technology to condition in these (stealth beliefs) and greater habitual processes for constant unfolding success!
After all, Success Is A Daily Process!
By releasing and healing the energies and complications that used to stop this process, this will allow you to get greater consistent results out of yourself on a daily basis; by virtue of the fact that you join in with energy flow and build a frame of mind with enhancing beliefs which can support it!
The Stealth Warrior Program is being launched on the 24/7/2009.
Get Yours On 24/7/2009!
All The Best Success,
Nicholas Finnegan
Friday, July 17, 2009
Stealth Energy and The Alpha Warrior!
Hi folks,
The big thing that keeps people from staying secure and composed is self restrictions and hesitancy.
What are they?
They are manifestations of compressed energy that are stuck or held within the body in a way that doesn't help you to move forward.
In other words, if you feel clamped down, unworthy, pitiful or weak - you are actually investing in these emotions and that's why you feel stuck!
These negative investments tend to block you from experiencing feelings of freedom, happiness, joy and abundance!
Blockages cause struggle and cause you to fight with yourself!
Have you ever been in a state of frustration? It may have felt like you were trying to drive forward with something else pulling you back at the same time.
On the other side of the spectrum - you also have been so excited about going on holiday that all your hesitations released and you where expansive in your emotions.
All positive emotions expand, where as negative emotions keep people restricted from experiencing the true potential of what their emotions can fully allow them to experience...
Alpha males and Alpha Females are un-hindered from restrictions.
Energy that continuous to flow and extend is a true display of alpha male and females... they have no restrictions in the possibility and potential they can manifest!
When you learn how to manifest Alpha energy, you'll become smooth within yourself and your life; you'll naturally participate in a constant flow success, with a strong reciliance that diminishes anything that tried to hold you back.
Think of this energy as white smoke testing the aero dynamics of a car... no matter what car you use, the smoke continuous to adapt to whatever shape it needs to gain it's way!
The whole idea is to jump into this stream of resourcefulness and smoothly flow in it's continuous abundance.
Once you change your investments into something positive, you'll use that same investment you were once using to make yourself feel bad, to make yourself feel good instead!
In other words, you'll reap greater rewards out of your life with the exact same energy you were using to make you feel stuck, but this time, you'll learn to use that exact same energy to make yourself feel good!
You Will Redirect Your Negative Energy To Expand It!
Don't waste your energy on blockages anymore! Spend your energy in ways that allow you to feel good!
Time and energy is precious, be careful what directions your investing your energy towards because your spending your energy in directions regardless!
It's the investment within itself, that needs to be re-directed into a better direction, so you spend more time and energy investing in what works from now on....
You'll see exactly how you can use negative energy to refine it into Alpha energy with the Stealth Warrior process ...
Releasing Alpha energy and stealth energy is the core foundation of Stealth Warrior as it shows you to move through the world with finesse and power!
More to come in the next email!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Go Here To Be Notified When Stealth Warrior Launches and also receive FREE Course Updates!
P.P.S. Hypnotic Confidence is still being ordered like crazy because it is - by far, the most powerful charisma enhancer on the net! Get your's by going Here...
The big thing that keeps people from staying secure and composed is self restrictions and hesitancy.
What are they?
They are manifestations of compressed energy that are stuck or held within the body in a way that doesn't help you to move forward.
In other words, if you feel clamped down, unworthy, pitiful or weak - you are actually investing in these emotions and that's why you feel stuck!
These negative investments tend to block you from experiencing feelings of freedom, happiness, joy and abundance!
Blockages cause struggle and cause you to fight with yourself!
Have you ever been in a state of frustration? It may have felt like you were trying to drive forward with something else pulling you back at the same time.
On the other side of the spectrum - you also have been so excited about going on holiday that all your hesitations released and you where expansive in your emotions.
All positive emotions expand, where as negative emotions keep people restricted from experiencing the true potential of what their emotions can fully allow them to experience...
Alpha males and Alpha Females are un-hindered from restrictions.
Energy that continuous to flow and extend is a true display of alpha male and females... they have no restrictions in the possibility and potential they can manifest!
When you learn how to manifest Alpha energy, you'll become smooth within yourself and your life; you'll naturally participate in a constant flow success, with a strong reciliance that diminishes anything that tried to hold you back.
Think of this energy as white smoke testing the aero dynamics of a car... no matter what car you use, the smoke continuous to adapt to whatever shape it needs to gain it's way!
The whole idea is to jump into this stream of resourcefulness and smoothly flow in it's continuous abundance.
Once you change your investments into something positive, you'll use that same investment you were once using to make yourself feel bad, to make yourself feel good instead!
In other words, you'll reap greater rewards out of your life with the exact same energy you were using to make you feel stuck, but this time, you'll learn to use that exact same energy to make yourself feel good!
You Will Redirect Your Negative Energy To Expand It!
Don't waste your energy on blockages anymore! Spend your energy in ways that allow you to feel good!
Time and energy is precious, be careful what directions your investing your energy towards because your spending your energy in directions regardless!
It's the investment within itself, that needs to be re-directed into a better direction, so you spend more time and energy investing in what works from now on....
You'll see exactly how you can use negative energy to refine it into Alpha energy with the Stealth Warrior process ...
Releasing Alpha energy and stealth energy is the core foundation of Stealth Warrior as it shows you to move through the world with finesse and power!
More to come in the next email!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Go Here To Be Notified When Stealth Warrior Launches and also receive FREE Course Updates!
P.P.S. Hypnotic Confidence is still being ordered like crazy because it is - by far, the most powerful charisma enhancer on the net! Get your's by going Here...
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