Hello,
In this post I wanted to share with you a recent question I received from one of my youtube videos.
I have re-written it slightly so it makes more sense for you in this particular post.
From, (Anommonous)
hi nicholas, wat should i do to interpret things that occurs in my daily life in a more positive way? im having tendency to blame myself if anything goes wrong even though i do realize that i did nutin wrong
Nicholas:
Hello,
If you realize that you did nothing wrong, what exactly are you blaming yourself for?
A great way to interrupt or ( better yet - utilize) negative things that occur in your daily life is to ask yourself questions that are directed towards the positive.
When you feel bad, DON'T say to yourself...
"Why am I such a failure?"
"Why does this always to happen to me?"
"Why do I always get things wrong!" etc...
When you ask your mind a question, it gives you an answer, ask a negative question and you'll get a set of negative answers which don't feel good.
But by asking yourself questions that are directed towards the positive, such as...
"How can I learn from this?"
"What is it about this situation that has helped me to become a stronger person?"
"How can I look at this situation differently in ways that allow me to feel better about myself?"
By doing this you are giving your mind a better direction to move towards. You are taking a negative experience and utilising it, transforming it and purifying it into positive new learnings....
You are also expanding your positive frame of reference, which allows you to come up with a greater positive foundation of ideas and resources that help you to succeed in the future.
Remember your mind will always give you what you ask for!
Whenever you notice that your blaming yourself (for something that you didn't do :-S ... STOP, become aware of what's going on as it's happening, and use your mind in positive directions by asking yourself better questions to support your self worth.
Turn negative into positive, by asking the right questions! And be careful what your talking yourself into! :)
Hope this helps
- Nick
Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts
Friday, February 22, 2019
Monday, October 1, 2018
How To Stop Relying On Others To Feel Powerful!
Hello,
One of the most common problems people have is a lack of self reliance.
A client of mine was in a fabulous relationship, the girl of his dreams, but no matter how good things were, he was scared about losing her.
He admitted that the issues were all to do with him, he also pointed out that he was clingy.
He would tear himself to pieces inside when his girlfriend was away or when he was alone, he couldn't do anything by himself without her.
This is what I said to him:
"The only reason why you feel clingy and have no self belief when your not around her is because you are 'relying' on her to make you feel secure... That's why your clinging onto her, because your clinging onto the emotions that you get 'from her' when your with her."
I find that alot of the time with human interactions and relationships, it's not low self esteem or low self confidence; but it's the fact that your needing to feel something from people 'first' that will help you to get 'you' what you want.
In other words, a lack of self reliance!
For example: maybe you have been in a situation were you need to be around someone to feel secure. Or maybe you want people to verify your ability to feel confident. Or maybe you want people to make you feel happy about yourself 'for you'.
...And then only when they verify it 'for you', then after you can feel good about yourself; But 'if' they are not around, it goes away.
So to own your self belief and success you must stop relying on others to feel these things and instead, learn how to feel them for yourself.
In other words, once you realize that you don't need others to verify your desires for you, and that you can feel whatever you want within yourself all the time (no matter if other people are around or not) then you start to own your right to feel secure and believe in yourself all the time - wherever you go; Because you carry it around with you 'inside' as your own personal resource.
The key is that you gain inner access to these resources any time you want them.
When you stay comfortable in your ability to have choice and flexibility, in any situation, then you give yourself the permission to stay secure, happy and free.
In short, you become free from the 'dependence' of other people to feel confident, because you gain independence in your ability to stay successful within yourself - FOR YOURSELF!
To test this out... Stop for a moment and ask yourself if your waiting for someone to do something, or to tell you something, or to verify something for you, before you can start to feel good about yourself and act confidently..?
If you notice that you are, grab onto your personal responsibility to have more security - that supposed to be yours, and take rightful ownership of it to gain more personal power and independence with it from this moment on.
Sometimes it's not a confidence boost that you need, sometimes it's just about owning your energy and your given right to experience more of your own personal power.
You must NOT need people to feel good, but you must be secure and certain in your ability to be able to feel good because of 'you'!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Grab this opportunity to download your FREE life success mini-course right now by clicking here!
P.P.S. Higher Self Esteem and More... allows you to supercharge your daily success - as it consistently builds on the success you already have today - to achieve more more of it in the future... for more go here...
One of the most common problems people have is a lack of self reliance.
A client of mine was in a fabulous relationship, the girl of his dreams, but no matter how good things were, he was scared about losing her.
He admitted that the issues were all to do with him, he also pointed out that he was clingy.
He would tear himself to pieces inside when his girlfriend was away or when he was alone, he couldn't do anything by himself without her.
This is what I said to him:
"The only reason why you feel clingy and have no self belief when your not around her is because you are 'relying' on her to make you feel secure... That's why your clinging onto her, because your clinging onto the emotions that you get 'from her' when your with her."
I find that alot of the time with human interactions and relationships, it's not low self esteem or low self confidence; but it's the fact that your needing to feel something from people 'first' that will help you to get 'you' what you want.
In other words, a lack of self reliance!
For example: maybe you have been in a situation were you need to be around someone to feel secure. Or maybe you want people to verify your ability to feel confident. Or maybe you want people to make you feel happy about yourself 'for you'.
...And then only when they verify it 'for you', then after you can feel good about yourself; But 'if' they are not around, it goes away.
So to own your self belief and success you must stop relying on others to feel these things and instead, learn how to feel them for yourself.
In other words, once you realize that you don't need others to verify your desires for you, and that you can feel whatever you want within yourself all the time (no matter if other people are around or not) then you start to own your right to feel secure and believe in yourself all the time - wherever you go; Because you carry it around with you 'inside' as your own personal resource.
The key is that you gain inner access to these resources any time you want them.
When you stay comfortable in your ability to have choice and flexibility, in any situation, then you give yourself the permission to stay secure, happy and free.
In short, you become free from the 'dependence' of other people to feel confident, because you gain independence in your ability to stay successful within yourself - FOR YOURSELF!
To test this out... Stop for a moment and ask yourself if your waiting for someone to do something, or to tell you something, or to verify something for you, before you can start to feel good about yourself and act confidently..?
If you notice that you are, grab onto your personal responsibility to have more security - that supposed to be yours, and take rightful ownership of it to gain more personal power and independence with it from this moment on.
Sometimes it's not a confidence boost that you need, sometimes it's just about owning your energy and your given right to experience more of your own personal power.
You must NOT need people to feel good, but you must be secure and certain in your ability to be able to feel good because of 'you'!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Grab this opportunity to download your FREE life success mini-course right now by clicking here!
P.P.S. Higher Self Esteem and More... allows you to supercharge your daily success - as it consistently builds on the success you already have today - to achieve more more of it in the future... for more go here...
Friday, July 27, 2018
Exposing The Lies About "Will Power!"
Hello,
Today I would like to share with you a chapter taken from my book: Higher Self Esteem and More...
Learn How To Use Your WILL To Create Power and Choice In Your Life!
Will
What determines your results?
The ultimate power in being able to exercise your will.
Now, some people will refer to will as 'will power' but the word "power" attached to the end of the word will only confuses us when it comes to really understanding what our will truly is.
Most of us think of power as strength, position of authority or control
The word power added to the end of our own will, speaks in terms of effort or an ability that is used, possessed or has been gained.
But this doesn't help us to understand anything!
We understand that somebody can have the ability to do a cartwheel, or a speaker having the ability to produce sounds, or the human eye possessing the ability to see. But to speak of the ability to will, leaves us completely confused to understand how naturally EFFORTLESS our will really is.
Will: To make a reasoned choice, decision and action
In other words, force and effort is not required when using will. As will is being able to choose, decide and act.
We have the will to do so, as we have the freedom of choice. However, this does not mean we can do whatever we want.
You cannot make someone do something against their own will
A person 'could' make someone take action by making them feel scared or excited enough. But that someone chooses and acts based on their own decisions.
A person that is scared chooses to succumb to fear by their own decisions. Someone that is excited enough decides to act according to their own reasons.
You cannot make someone do something against their own reasons and decisions, because they reason and decide according to what they choose is best for them.
The notion of somebody making someone do something against their will - is ridiculous. When you tell someone to jump they don't automatically do it every time unless they have a reason or have chosen to do so.
We all possess the ability to will and this must not be mistaken with "will power", which means to apply effort to make a simple decision.
It doesn't take any effort to use your will. It's just a case of deciding to move your muscles and directing your focus in the directions you want.
Everybody has will - and for the person that has the typical "will power" label, is just someone that has become used to making decisions, and then acting upon them; as a result, they have unleashed the natural power we all possess within us.
The so called 'strongest will powered person in the world' has no power of will over you, as we all have the same ability to choose, decide, think and move alike. THE POINT HERE IS THAT WE ARE ALL USING THE SAME ABILITY!
Will is just a case of: will you? Or wont you?
If you will do something; then you will use your will to take action.
Trying to use power or force against your own ability to decide and act is pointless, because you'll only be resisting against your natural ability of body and mind.
When you can't be bothered to do something, you are really implying that you can't be bothered to move your own body.
If you end up fighting against yourself to take action, relax and start again - to gain the habit of being able to use your will naturally and effortlessly.
Above all, the choices and decisions you make in the present regarding your unbeneficial thoughts and behaviours that you are aware of, are completely your choice if you continue to persist in them. In other words, if you become aware of your negative thoughts or behaviours and continue to do them, that's your own choice.
Are you going to choose a direction that serves you or not?
If you do not make empowering, beneficial decisions in how you want to live your life; then you have already made a decision haven't you?
You have made the decision to be directed and controlled by your environment instead of creating the future you deserve.
Make decisions that benefit your life's higher self esteem.
Determination is directed focus and action, and action is what impacts your daily life.
Act upon your beneficial feelings and decisions. And use effortless will in life to reach the given end of your desired goals.
In a nutshell
1. Will "power" is described as effort and this is WRONG!
2. To will - is to make choices, decide and act
3. Get used to using your will until it naturally becomes effortless
5. Will you - or wont you?
To own your Full Audio Home Study Course Go Here...
To Sign Up for the free mini-course Go Here...
To purchase your book visit Amazon Here...
All the best,
Nick
Today I would like to share with you a chapter taken from my book: Higher Self Esteem and More...
Learn How To Use Your WILL To Create Power and Choice In Your Life!
Will
What determines your results?
The ultimate power in being able to exercise your will.
Now, some people will refer to will as 'will power' but the word "power" attached to the end of the word will only confuses us when it comes to really understanding what our will truly is.
Most of us think of power as strength, position of authority or control
The word power added to the end of our own will, speaks in terms of effort or an ability that is used, possessed or has been gained.
But this doesn't help us to understand anything!
We understand that somebody can have the ability to do a cartwheel, or a speaker having the ability to produce sounds, or the human eye possessing the ability to see. But to speak of the ability to will, leaves us completely confused to understand how naturally EFFORTLESS our will really is.
Will: To make a reasoned choice, decision and action
In other words, force and effort is not required when using will. As will is being able to choose, decide and act.
We have the will to do so, as we have the freedom of choice. However, this does not mean we can do whatever we want.
You cannot make someone do something against their own will
A person 'could' make someone take action by making them feel scared or excited enough. But that someone chooses and acts based on their own decisions.
A person that is scared chooses to succumb to fear by their own decisions. Someone that is excited enough decides to act according to their own reasons.
You cannot make someone do something against their own reasons and decisions, because they reason and decide according to what they choose is best for them.
The notion of somebody making someone do something against their will - is ridiculous. When you tell someone to jump they don't automatically do it every time unless they have a reason or have chosen to do so.
We all possess the ability to will and this must not be mistaken with "will power", which means to apply effort to make a simple decision.
It doesn't take any effort to use your will. It's just a case of deciding to move your muscles and directing your focus in the directions you want.
Everybody has will - and for the person that has the typical "will power" label, is just someone that has become used to making decisions, and then acting upon them; as a result, they have unleashed the natural power we all possess within us.
The so called 'strongest will powered person in the world' has no power of will over you, as we all have the same ability to choose, decide, think and move alike. THE POINT HERE IS THAT WE ARE ALL USING THE SAME ABILITY!
Will is just a case of: will you? Or wont you?
If you will do something; then you will use your will to take action.
Trying to use power or force against your own ability to decide and act is pointless, because you'll only be resisting against your natural ability of body and mind.
When you can't be bothered to do something, you are really implying that you can't be bothered to move your own body.
If you end up fighting against yourself to take action, relax and start again - to gain the habit of being able to use your will naturally and effortlessly.
Above all, the choices and decisions you make in the present regarding your unbeneficial thoughts and behaviours that you are aware of, are completely your choice if you continue to persist in them. In other words, if you become aware of your negative thoughts or behaviours and continue to do them, that's your own choice.
Are you going to choose a direction that serves you or not?
If you do not make empowering, beneficial decisions in how you want to live your life; then you have already made a decision haven't you?
You have made the decision to be directed and controlled by your environment instead of creating the future you deserve.
Make decisions that benefit your life's higher self esteem.
Determination is directed focus and action, and action is what impacts your daily life.
Act upon your beneficial feelings and decisions. And use effortless will in life to reach the given end of your desired goals.
In a nutshell
1. Will "power" is described as effort and this is WRONG!
2. To will - is to make choices, decide and act
3. Get used to using your will until it naturally becomes effortless
5. Will you - or wont you?
To own your Full Audio Home Study Course Go Here...
To Sign Up for the free mini-course Go Here...
To purchase your book visit Amazon Here...
All the best,
Nick
Monday, April 23, 2018
The Power Of Positive Beliefs! :-)
Hello,
Today let's talk about the power of beliefs!
Many people don't understand what beliefs are, what they do or the great impact they have on a persons behaviours, feelings, thoughts and capability.
Your beliefs act like a gate to your inner resources as a human being...
If you believe that you are a confident person, you will view the world through this belief and your mind will offer you confident resources to make your life and situations more easier to deal with.
On the contrary to this, if you believe that you are incapable, your beliefs will act like a self fulfilling prophesy. Your negative beliefs will put you into a limited frame of mind, where the only resources you can access are those that match your negative beliefs.
By virtue of building new positive beliefs, you are able to expand your frame of mind to higher levels of awareness and possibility.
A belief is an idea that you have about yourself - that you pre-suppose to be true!
In other words, if you pre-suppose that your going to fail before you even try, it isn't necessarily a fact that your going to fail, but it's because you pre-supposed that your a failure which is going to determine your results in given situations.
Beliefs automatically guide your thinking, feeling and behaving.
When you convince your mind that you can succeed, feel happier, create the relationship and wealth you desire, you will build new beliefs and unlock inner resources that support you to get what you want out of your life.
A great way to build new beliefs and convince your mind of something new is through the act of repetition.
You can repeat something over and over again and the more times you do it successfully, the more you will begin to believe that you can feel different about things to succeed.
The other way to build new beliefs is through mental rehearsal. If you continuously rehearse yourself feeling happy, succeeding in life and creating the results you deserve, your mind will eventually become convinced of your new beliefs to create more happiness.
Let's go through a little exercise for you to convince your mind for success and build new positive beliefs.
1. Think about a new belief that you would like to cultivate.
(It can be anything, for example: "I am a successful person" "You are a capable individual" "I am an attractive person" "You are successful speaker" etc...)
2. Remember a time when you demonstrated the right attitudes, behaviours and feelings that would best represent this new belief.
(For example, If you wanted to feel more attractive, you would remember a time in your past when you felt more attractive, had positive thoughts like an attractive person and behaved like an attractive person. Imagine stepping into yourself all over again and notice what it feels like to take on this perspective all over again as a new belief.)
3. Remember a time when you attracted positive results into your life automatically, as a result of having the attitudes and behaviours of this new belief.
(For example: You would remember a time when someone found you attractive, without you even trying to be attractive at all. So maybe you were just minding your own business when someone came along and gave you a positive compliment, which allowed you to feel like an attractive person. This is like 'magnetism' through the use of your beliefs.)
4. Imagine a future scenario of yourself having the attitudes and feelings that would best represent this new belief.
(For example: Imagine yourself feeling attractive in the future, going out and meeting new people and notice the positive effects you have on your environment with the new thoughts, behaviours and feelings that allow you to present this new belief.
This simple technique works very well because you take positive feelings from your past, utilize times when you attracted positive opportunities and you also create positive goals for the future.
It helps to convince your mind of these three different things.
That you were able to create something positive in the past.
That you were able to attract something positive in the past (without any effort)
That you ARE able to imagine yourself in the future living with the beliefs that you want.
By doing this 3 step process over and over again, your mind begins to become convinced of the new beliefs that you are designing in. Eventually your mind will begin to pre-suppose it to be true, to the point where you have immediate access to it in the real world.
Do this exercise once a day for about 2-3 weeks from steps 1-4.
This exercise and many others are integrated into my 'Hypnotic Confidence' Hypnosis Audio Session which makes it much easier for you to design in new beliefs.
You are put into a deep hypnotic state where your mind can easily accept positive suggestions as my voice guides you through many different positive scenarios, like the ones we just went through to build positive beliefs.
Try out this exercise yourself and notice how you feel much better about your life.
Until next time...
Live with power and success,
Nicholas Finnegan
Today let's talk about the power of beliefs!
Many people don't understand what beliefs are, what they do or the great impact they have on a persons behaviours, feelings, thoughts and capability.
Your beliefs act like a gate to your inner resources as a human being...
If you believe that you are a confident person, you will view the world through this belief and your mind will offer you confident resources to make your life and situations more easier to deal with.
On the contrary to this, if you believe that you are incapable, your beliefs will act like a self fulfilling prophesy. Your negative beliefs will put you into a limited frame of mind, where the only resources you can access are those that match your negative beliefs.
By virtue of building new positive beliefs, you are able to expand your frame of mind to higher levels of awareness and possibility.
A belief is an idea that you have about yourself - that you pre-suppose to be true!
In other words, if you pre-suppose that your going to fail before you even try, it isn't necessarily a fact that your going to fail, but it's because you pre-supposed that your a failure which is going to determine your results in given situations.
Beliefs automatically guide your thinking, feeling and behaving.
When you convince your mind that you can succeed, feel happier, create the relationship and wealth you desire, you will build new beliefs and unlock inner resources that support you to get what you want out of your life.
A great way to build new beliefs and convince your mind of something new is through the act of repetition.
You can repeat something over and over again and the more times you do it successfully, the more you will begin to believe that you can feel different about things to succeed.
The other way to build new beliefs is through mental rehearsal. If you continuously rehearse yourself feeling happy, succeeding in life and creating the results you deserve, your mind will eventually become convinced of your new beliefs to create more happiness.
Let's go through a little exercise for you to convince your mind for success and build new positive beliefs.
1. Think about a new belief that you would like to cultivate.
(It can be anything, for example: "I am a successful person" "You are a capable individual" "I am an attractive person" "You are successful speaker" etc...)
2. Remember a time when you demonstrated the right attitudes, behaviours and feelings that would best represent this new belief.
(For example, If you wanted to feel more attractive, you would remember a time in your past when you felt more attractive, had positive thoughts like an attractive person and behaved like an attractive person. Imagine stepping into yourself all over again and notice what it feels like to take on this perspective all over again as a new belief.)
3. Remember a time when you attracted positive results into your life automatically, as a result of having the attitudes and behaviours of this new belief.
(For example: You would remember a time when someone found you attractive, without you even trying to be attractive at all. So maybe you were just minding your own business when someone came along and gave you a positive compliment, which allowed you to feel like an attractive person. This is like 'magnetism' through the use of your beliefs.)
4. Imagine a future scenario of yourself having the attitudes and feelings that would best represent this new belief.
(For example: Imagine yourself feeling attractive in the future, going out and meeting new people and notice the positive effects you have on your environment with the new thoughts, behaviours and feelings that allow you to present this new belief.
This simple technique works very well because you take positive feelings from your past, utilize times when you attracted positive opportunities and you also create positive goals for the future.
It helps to convince your mind of these three different things.
That you were able to create something positive in the past.
That you were able to attract something positive in the past (without any effort)
That you ARE able to imagine yourself in the future living with the beliefs that you want.
By doing this 3 step process over and over again, your mind begins to become convinced of the new beliefs that you are designing in. Eventually your mind will begin to pre-suppose it to be true, to the point where you have immediate access to it in the real world.
Do this exercise once a day for about 2-3 weeks from steps 1-4.
This exercise and many others are integrated into my 'Hypnotic Confidence' Hypnosis Audio Session which makes it much easier for you to design in new beliefs.
You are put into a deep hypnotic state where your mind can easily accept positive suggestions as my voice guides you through many different positive scenarios, like the ones we just went through to build positive beliefs.
Try out this exercise yourself and notice how you feel much better about your life.
Until next time...
Live with power and success,
Nicholas Finnegan
Tuesday, March 20, 2018
Do you do what you hate, Instead of what you love? Part 1
Hello,
Let me ask you some important questions...
Are you happy about your life, your job, your relationship? Do you wake up in the morning feeling excited for the day ahead? Or do you hit the snooze button a dozen times before you finally drag yourself out of bed with a lousy attitude?
In life, most people tend to do what they hate, instead of what they love!
Let's stop for a second to consider this statement...
As you look around your general society today. Many people are unhappy, and what's even worse, they do things that don't really fulfill them.
They are, at least, dissatisfied with the quality of their lives, or want more, but have no clue how to get it.
But why is this?
For the most part it's either three of the following reasons.
A: You don't think you deserve to live the life of your dreams.
B: You are too afraid to start creating the life of your dreams!
C: You don't even think it's possible to create the life of your dreams!
Let's go into the first crucial step you MUST take before you can begin the process of living a better quality of life.
And that is, "You must FIRST become aware that YOU ARE NOT living the quality of life you deserve right now!"
YES! God did not put you here to be miserable, but there are alot of miserable people out there who don't even know it yet.
Instead of ignoring yourself though, start becoming aware of your REAL desires and start respecting yourself by doing that right now! This will start the process of growth!
The fact that you are becoming aware of your desires, is already self-respect within itself! Because you are finally beginning to acknowledge who you are and who you really want to become for the future.
We all have set-backs and frustrations. And I'm sure you also have goals and dreams - something more that you aspire to be in your life!
Instead of being a spectator at a boring football game that you don't like, get up off your ass and start becoming one of the active players in your life, who plays the active role and makes a significant difference to the game...
The FIRST step is to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the quality of your life, because nobody else will do it for you!
Once you take time to uphold yourself in this uplifting fashion, you will demonstrate for yourself true deservingness and personal power. Because your life becomes set by your OWN rules, not anybody else's!
This is how you can start doing what you love in life, instead of what you hate!
In the next issue I'm going to give you the solutions to the three set-backs that stop you from creating the life of your dreams so you can start achieving real success.
If you don't want to wait any longer - and your ready to gain the personal power to start achieving your dreams right now, grab the confidence CD while it's still available at this special low price.
Until next time,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. My Hypnotic Confidence Program is bursting with all the right attitudes, beliefs and motivational skills that help you automatically create the success and confidence you desire. Go here now and grab your confidence success boosting technology today!!
Let me ask you some important questions...
Are you happy about your life, your job, your relationship? Do you wake up in the morning feeling excited for the day ahead? Or do you hit the snooze button a dozen times before you finally drag yourself out of bed with a lousy attitude?
In life, most people tend to do what they hate, instead of what they love!
Let's stop for a second to consider this statement...
As you look around your general society today. Many people are unhappy, and what's even worse, they do things that don't really fulfill them.
They are, at least, dissatisfied with the quality of their lives, or want more, but have no clue how to get it.
But why is this?
For the most part it's either three of the following reasons.
A: You don't think you deserve to live the life of your dreams.
B: You are too afraid to start creating the life of your dreams!
C: You don't even think it's possible to create the life of your dreams!
Let's go into the first crucial step you MUST take before you can begin the process of living a better quality of life.
And that is, "You must FIRST become aware that YOU ARE NOT living the quality of life you deserve right now!"
YES! God did not put you here to be miserable, but there are alot of miserable people out there who don't even know it yet.
Instead of ignoring yourself though, start becoming aware of your REAL desires and start respecting yourself by doing that right now! This will start the process of growth!
The fact that you are becoming aware of your desires, is already self-respect within itself! Because you are finally beginning to acknowledge who you are and who you really want to become for the future.
We all have set-backs and frustrations. And I'm sure you also have goals and dreams - something more that you aspire to be in your life!
Instead of being a spectator at a boring football game that you don't like, get up off your ass and start becoming one of the active players in your life, who plays the active role and makes a significant difference to the game...
The FIRST step is to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the quality of your life, because nobody else will do it for you!
Once you take time to uphold yourself in this uplifting fashion, you will demonstrate for yourself true deservingness and personal power. Because your life becomes set by your OWN rules, not anybody else's!
This is how you can start doing what you love in life, instead of what you hate!
In the next issue I'm going to give you the solutions to the three set-backs that stop you from creating the life of your dreams so you can start achieving real success.
If you don't want to wait any longer - and your ready to gain the personal power to start achieving your dreams right now, grab the confidence CD while it's still available at this special low price.
Until next time,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. My Hypnotic Confidence Program is bursting with all the right attitudes, beliefs and motivational skills that help you automatically create the success and confidence you desire. Go here now and grab your confidence success boosting technology today!!
Saturday, February 17, 2018
If You Need Self Esteem, the Fact That You Need Self Esteem Will MakeYou Attain it Right Now!
Hello,
If you need self esteem, your already half way there to building the quality of life that you deserve. Why? Because needing more out of your life is one of the biggest important traits for anyone who has good self esteem.
Those who don't need more in their lives tend to settle for less than they deserve. But by virtue of the fact that you're in need to build more self esteem already demonstrates to yourself that you are willing to do what it takes to succeed in life!!
Now... as you find your self esteem rising you may begin to notice that the quality of your desires for more happiness, self worth and self respect begins to grow stronger... And the more this need... deep down inside... begins to increase, the more you'll begin to notice more positive opportunities presenting themselves into your everyday life.
By thinking about what you really want in life, and by visualizing yourself feeling good - talking to yourself in positive ways and moving your body in ways that demonstrates confidence and happiness, you will begin to feel better about yourself.
Utilize your desire to need self esteem and you will run into new positive opportunities to build it, just like you are doing now. And why stop there? Would you like to gain more confidence, build a better relationship, change your financial situation?? All of these things are possible when you need them, when you desire more out of your life.
When you want something your less likely to go after it, but when you NEED something you'll do anything to get it.
The whole idea is to turn your wants into needs, and to turn your needs into your physical reality.
You can do this just like many others are already doing this everyday. "Turning that need for self esteem" into social exuberance, personal power, self appreciation and positive feelings that allow you to feel good about yourself.
It's your time to turn your need for self esteem into a powerful recourse that drives you towards creating future success...
So Go here now to start your journey towards changing your life...
This is the most powerful system to dramatically increase your self worth and life success in 4 Days FLAT! The Higher Self Esteem and More Course!.
If you need self esteem, your already half way there to building the quality of life that you deserve. Why? Because needing more out of your life is one of the biggest important traits for anyone who has good self esteem.
Those who don't need more in their lives tend to settle for less than they deserve. But by virtue of the fact that you're in need to build more self esteem already demonstrates to yourself that you are willing to do what it takes to succeed in life!!
Now... as you find your self esteem rising you may begin to notice that the quality of your desires for more happiness, self worth and self respect begins to grow stronger... And the more this need... deep down inside... begins to increase, the more you'll begin to notice more positive opportunities presenting themselves into your everyday life.
By thinking about what you really want in life, and by visualizing yourself feeling good - talking to yourself in positive ways and moving your body in ways that demonstrates confidence and happiness, you will begin to feel better about yourself.
Utilize your desire to need self esteem and you will run into new positive opportunities to build it, just like you are doing now. And why stop there? Would you like to gain more confidence, build a better relationship, change your financial situation?? All of these things are possible when you need them, when you desire more out of your life.
When you want something your less likely to go after it, but when you NEED something you'll do anything to get it.
The whole idea is to turn your wants into needs, and to turn your needs into your physical reality.
You can do this just like many others are already doing this everyday. "Turning that need for self esteem" into social exuberance, personal power, self appreciation and positive feelings that allow you to feel good about yourself.
It's your time to turn your need for self esteem into a powerful recourse that drives you towards creating future success...
So Go here now to start your journey towards changing your life...
This is the most powerful system to dramatically increase your self worth and life success in 4 Days FLAT! The Higher Self Esteem and More Course!.
Friday, December 8, 2017
Powerful Self Esteem Journal For Daily Success!
Hello,
Keeping a self esteem journal is very handy for keeping track of your progress, after all, if you never keet track of your progress you may never know if you made any progress in the first place.
At the end of each day take out your journal and go through this exercise:
1. Write down all the things you tried that didn't work out the way you wanted it to
2. Write down what you learned from these experiences and how they have added to your recourses for success in the future.
3. Write down all the things you did that worked
4. Write down how you have benefited from what has worked and how it has helped you to succeed for the future
Do this everyday just before you go to bed and you'll begin to notice daily changes in your attitude towards life. You will become aware of what you want in your life and this will propel you to accomplish your daily goals.
Journals are great because being specific about your achievements and becoming excited about what you learn everyday, is the key to expanding your future possibility. Goals are set in the future, the present is where all the power is to create, and your past represents all the recourses you have learned as a human being.
Learn from your past - keep yourself fulfilled in this present moment - and imagine yourself in the future living the lifestyle you deserve.
Stop for a moment to imagine yourself in the future and make the images big bright and appealing, feel the feelings they make you feel and become addicted to this exciting feeling everyday, and use it to motivate you to create your dreams.
CLICK HERE To Start Changing Your Life Right Now!
Keeping a self esteem journal is very handy for keeping track of your progress, after all, if you never keet track of your progress you may never know if you made any progress in the first place.
At the end of each day take out your journal and go through this exercise:
1. Write down all the things you tried that didn't work out the way you wanted it to
2. Write down what you learned from these experiences and how they have added to your recourses for success in the future.
3. Write down all the things you did that worked
4. Write down how you have benefited from what has worked and how it has helped you to succeed for the future
Do this everyday just before you go to bed and you'll begin to notice daily changes in your attitude towards life. You will become aware of what you want in your life and this will propel you to accomplish your daily goals.
Journals are great because being specific about your achievements and becoming excited about what you learn everyday, is the key to expanding your future possibility. Goals are set in the future, the present is where all the power is to create, and your past represents all the recourses you have learned as a human being.
Learn from your past - keep yourself fulfilled in this present moment - and imagine yourself in the future living the lifestyle you deserve.
Stop for a moment to imagine yourself in the future and make the images big bright and appealing, feel the feelings they make you feel and become addicted to this exciting feeling everyday, and use it to motivate you to create your dreams.
CLICK HERE To Start Changing Your Life Right Now!
Thursday, November 23, 2017
Don't Maintain Self Esteem, It's More Powerful to Create Self EsteemInstead!
Hello,
Many of us go through life trying to maintain things. We maintain our jobs , our relationships, or health, our friendships our houses...
But there isn't that much excitement in maintenance.
To maintain something is to help keep alive or to "survive" If an animal is wounded your job is to maintain it's wellbeing until it becomes healthy again.
But what happens when the animal is already healthy, you play with it and have fun with it don't you.
The level of success you have created in your life right now, whether huge or small, doesn't need to be maintained because you have already achieved it. Whats more important for you is to start creating MORE OF THIS SUCCESS!
With 'creation' comes expansion of success and possibilities.
The creative mind-set is focused on growth. For example: What else can be achieved other than the success you've already created...
If you are ill you can create better health. Creation has no limit but maintenance is justified by preserving something.
Maintenance is NOT expansive.
Life is not about ducking and diving and escaping punishment. It's a gift and a position you have been offered to become a coordinator of your daily positive reality.
With a positive creative mind-set, you'll start to noticing wonderful opportunities to do new things right before your eyes.
It's an opportunity to grow and expand your self esteem.
Start taking this creative opportunity mind-set into your life and start thinking of some goals you want to achieve.
If you earned £250 per week, how would you like to create £300 per week?
If you are maintaining your relationship, imagine if you came up with new ideas to have more fun and passion.
If you are maintaining your weight by dieting, imagine if you started working-out to become fitter with a system of motivation that works up a good sweat and builds more muscle!
Don't maintain the quality of your life, but seek to constantly expand it by creating and achieving your self esteem goals for future success.
CLICK HERE To Start Changing Your Life Right Now!
Many of us go through life trying to maintain things. We maintain our jobs , our relationships, or health, our friendships our houses...
But there isn't that much excitement in maintenance.
To maintain something is to help keep alive or to "survive" If an animal is wounded your job is to maintain it's wellbeing until it becomes healthy again.
But what happens when the animal is already healthy, you play with it and have fun with it don't you.
The level of success you have created in your life right now, whether huge or small, doesn't need to be maintained because you have already achieved it. Whats more important for you is to start creating MORE OF THIS SUCCESS!
With 'creation' comes expansion of success and possibilities.
The creative mind-set is focused on growth. For example: What else can be achieved other than the success you've already created...
If you are ill you can create better health. Creation has no limit but maintenance is justified by preserving something.
Maintenance is NOT expansive.
Life is not about ducking and diving and escaping punishment. It's a gift and a position you have been offered to become a coordinator of your daily positive reality.
With a positive creative mind-set, you'll start to noticing wonderful opportunities to do new things right before your eyes.
It's an opportunity to grow and expand your self esteem.
Start taking this creative opportunity mind-set into your life and start thinking of some goals you want to achieve.
If you earned £250 per week, how would you like to create £300 per week?
If you are maintaining your relationship, imagine if you came up with new ideas to have more fun and passion.
If you are maintaining your weight by dieting, imagine if you started working-out to become fitter with a system of motivation that works up a good sweat and builds more muscle!
Don't maintain the quality of your life, but seek to constantly expand it by creating and achieving your self esteem goals for future success.
CLICK HERE To Start Changing Your Life Right Now!
Friday, November 10, 2017
Self Esteem Help is Here For You All the Time!!
Hello,
Get self esteem help by helping yourself. This is the most powerful way you can your build self esteem.
There are generally two ways your self esteem is effected...
External influences
These are all of the criticism's that come from outside of yourself. For example, people, parents, friends bullies etc...
The second is...
Internal Influences
This is how you treat yourself as a person. How you talk to yourself inside of your mind, how you feel and the decisions you make.
The first step to helping yourself gain self esteem is to start protecting yourself from negative external influences.
When people are mean or verbally abusive don't just put up with it!! Do your best to protect your dignity and self image. The more you do this the more your self esteem will increase and you'll start to feel better about yourself.
The second step is to start complimenting yourself. Do good things for yourself that make you feel good. Start thinking positive thoughts about yourself so you can feel comfortable and get used to feeling positive feelings.
Even if you feel like your not making any progress, the reality is YOU ARE! The fact is that you have to keep going; The moment you give up is the moment when your self esteem starts to diminish.
Life is all about building positive habits that serve you. If you feel bad about yourself this only means that you have a habit that hasn't been working for you.
To change how you feel and increase your self esteem, you need to start building positive habits of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that contribute to your future self esteem success.
You deserve to spend some time for yourself to increase your self esteem. You are WORTH the investment and time! So use your energy to start this process today!
CLICK HERE To Start Changing Your Life Right Now!
Get self esteem help by helping yourself. This is the most powerful way you can your build self esteem.
There are generally two ways your self esteem is effected...
External influences
These are all of the criticism's that come from outside of yourself. For example, people, parents, friends bullies etc...
The second is...
Internal Influences
This is how you treat yourself as a person. How you talk to yourself inside of your mind, how you feel and the decisions you make.
The first step to helping yourself gain self esteem is to start protecting yourself from negative external influences.
When people are mean or verbally abusive don't just put up with it!! Do your best to protect your dignity and self image. The more you do this the more your self esteem will increase and you'll start to feel better about yourself.
The second step is to start complimenting yourself. Do good things for yourself that make you feel good. Start thinking positive thoughts about yourself so you can feel comfortable and get used to feeling positive feelings.
Even if you feel like your not making any progress, the reality is YOU ARE! The fact is that you have to keep going; The moment you give up is the moment when your self esteem starts to diminish.
Life is all about building positive habits that serve you. If you feel bad about yourself this only means that you have a habit that hasn't been working for you.
To change how you feel and increase your self esteem, you need to start building positive habits of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that contribute to your future self esteem success.
You deserve to spend some time for yourself to increase your self esteem. You are WORTH the investment and time! So use your energy to start this process today!
CLICK HERE To Start Changing Your Life Right Now!
Thursday, September 28, 2017
Keys to Life Innovation! Unleash the Power Today!
Hello,
Keys To Life Innovation!
For you or anyone else to become a life innovator you need to have a plan! This plan must be infused with a clear mind and good self esteem.
To become a life innovator means to invent and re-invent your life to create the life-style you deserve. This means freeing yourself from confusion, pain, judgments and taking control of your destiny.
Steps you need to take:
1. Make sure you know what you want.
2. Make sure you have good self esteem to keep yourself on the right path.
3. Make sure you stay motivated and learn from your mistakes.
4. Make sure you are goal oriented. Nothing is worse than innovating your life without a set of powerful goals in mind.
Now once you know you can do all this, your already on your way to starting your life innovation process.
The most important thing you need to innovate your life is to have good self esteem. Innovated self esteem techniques keep you powerful in the pursuit of your innovation endeavors.
Most people seek life innovation because they are fed up of being told what to do or are fed up of settling for less in life and/or desire more out of life!
For you to be here reading this right now means you have already taken the right steps to manifesting life innovation. Your inner resources will become unlimited for you to adapt and maneuver around the rough edges of your life.
Now, the next step you need to take is to use the three steps and your self esteem to manifest life success and design the life you deserve...
Most people have no clue what life innovation is. It is a very rare subject that is underground in the personal development world...
Follow these three steps and you are already on your way to Life Innovation. Be prepared for the process thats about to take place. It will be a miraculous one if you know what your doing and have good self esteem to guide your success.
So after reading this article you have decided that life innovation is exactly what you need.
The most powerful system I have found to dramatically increase self worth to start your life innovation process is the Higher Self Esteem and More Course.
To your positive life innovation success :)
Keys To Life Innovation!
For you or anyone else to become a life innovator you need to have a plan! This plan must be infused with a clear mind and good self esteem.
To become a life innovator means to invent and re-invent your life to create the life-style you deserve. This means freeing yourself from confusion, pain, judgments and taking control of your destiny.
Steps you need to take:
1. Make sure you know what you want.
2. Make sure you have good self esteem to keep yourself on the right path.
3. Make sure you stay motivated and learn from your mistakes.
4. Make sure you are goal oriented. Nothing is worse than innovating your life without a set of powerful goals in mind.
Now once you know you can do all this, your already on your way to starting your life innovation process.
The most important thing you need to innovate your life is to have good self esteem. Innovated self esteem techniques keep you powerful in the pursuit of your innovation endeavors.
Most people seek life innovation because they are fed up of being told what to do or are fed up of settling for less in life and/or desire more out of life!
For you to be here reading this right now means you have already taken the right steps to manifesting life innovation. Your inner resources will become unlimited for you to adapt and maneuver around the rough edges of your life.
Now, the next step you need to take is to use the three steps and your self esteem to manifest life success and design the life you deserve...
Most people have no clue what life innovation is. It is a very rare subject that is underground in the personal development world...
Follow these three steps and you are already on your way to Life Innovation. Be prepared for the process thats about to take place. It will be a miraculous one if you know what your doing and have good self esteem to guide your success.
So after reading this article you have decided that life innovation is exactly what you need.
The most powerful system I have found to dramatically increase self worth to start your life innovation process is the Higher Self Esteem and More Course.
To your positive life innovation success :)
Wednesday, July 12, 2017
What you want, what you don't want
Dear friend,
Wherever you are in your life right now in terms of how you feel about yourself, your self esteem, your level of confidence, whether you feel anxiety, stress, frustration... etc...
You must now start your journey towards changing these problems around into new learnings and experiences that serve you from now on...
To start this process you must first accept these problems and fully come to terms with your current life circumstances; Its only once you do this you can start moving towards what you want, allowing you to measure your ongoing results and overcome limitations more easily.
First, lets focus on what you really want because this is much more important. You want to move towards what you want, not what you don't want.
So while your here...
What are some of the feelings, beliefs and new habits that you really want for yourself and to experience in your life? What will truly full-fill you if you had it right now? And what would these experiences be like once you have them?
Write out a small list.
Now that you have become clearer about what you want and how you will feel once you have it. Let us figure out what gets in your way of achieving these goals.
Write down a list and think of all the habits, beliefs and/or actions that you do or feel on a daily basis that prevent you from achieving your goals.
What limitations do you have right now?
And If they weren't there, how much closer would you be to achieving your goals?
How much more easier would it be to create what you want, without limitations?
As you address your limitations you may find that they come in forms of...
"I want to achieve this, but...."
Or...
""I cant create a better life, because..."
Figure out and write down a list of all the things that prevent you from gaining what you really want.
Once you begin to become aware of these hindrances, you will be able to learn from them in ways that empower you, and use these positive new learnings to make you stronger and move closer towards your future achievements.
Remember, that it is more important to focus on and move towards what you want to create in your life!
Its not a good thing to wait, but its not a good thing to rush either.
Don't invest your time and energy in negative emotions anymore, only use them as a means of reminding you of what you have set out to create in your life.
Sincerely,
Nicholas Finnegan
Wherever you are in your life right now in terms of how you feel about yourself, your self esteem, your level of confidence, whether you feel anxiety, stress, frustration... etc...
You must now start your journey towards changing these problems around into new learnings and experiences that serve you from now on...
To start this process you must first accept these problems and fully come to terms with your current life circumstances; Its only once you do this you can start moving towards what you want, allowing you to measure your ongoing results and overcome limitations more easily.
First, lets focus on what you really want because this is much more important. You want to move towards what you want, not what you don't want.
So while your here...
What are some of the feelings, beliefs and new habits that you really want for yourself and to experience in your life? What will truly full-fill you if you had it right now? And what would these experiences be like once you have them?
Write out a small list.
Now that you have become clearer about what you want and how you will feel once you have it. Let us figure out what gets in your way of achieving these goals.
Write down a list and think of all the habits, beliefs and/or actions that you do or feel on a daily basis that prevent you from achieving your goals.
What limitations do you have right now?
And If they weren't there, how much closer would you be to achieving your goals?
How much more easier would it be to create what you want, without limitations?
As you address your limitations you may find that they come in forms of...
"I want to achieve this, but...."
Or...
""I cant create a better life, because..."
Figure out and write down a list of all the things that prevent you from gaining what you really want.
Once you begin to become aware of these hindrances, you will be able to learn from them in ways that empower you, and use these positive new learnings to make you stronger and move closer towards your future achievements.
Remember, that it is more important to focus on and move towards what you want to create in your life!
Its not a good thing to wait, but its not a good thing to rush either.
Don't invest your time and energy in negative emotions anymore, only use them as a means of reminding you of what you have set out to create in your life.
Sincerely,
Nicholas Finnegan
Friday, June 23, 2017
To be a follower or to be an individual, that is the question.
Dear friend,
There is a big difference between what you think you want and what will truly and deeply fulfill you.
As you ponder about what your life is like right now, do you find that everything you have is a result of what you've been taught to chase after, or is it a result of what you chose and deeply want to be filled up with?
A dog needs an owner to teach it what to do, an owl is wise enough to figure it all out on it's own.
The owl is its own being. It studies carefully and awareness becomes expanded when a task needs to be completed, such as eating a small rabbit, a mouse and their favorite dish - skunk.
The dog rely's on an owner to be fed and cared for. It scurries around looking for food and picks up the scraps people leave behind, even if they know it isn't good for them, and most of the time aren't even aware of it in the long run.
The dog learns habits, where as the owl chooses and creates them!
Owls live in many places. Owls live in tree trunks, farms, in bushes, in forests. Sometimes owls live in old buildings, barns and even cactus's.
Dogs either sleep inside an owners house or stray outside in the cold. A few of them even get locked up in cages.
So...
As you begin to become as wise as the owl, you will find your sense of possibility and self beginning to expand. As a wiser person you will find you have complete choice to create whatever you want in life without limitation.
Once you adapt to this mindset (the mindset of individuality and wisdom) and begin to make this attitude more apparent for yourself in your life today... Would you still be living the life you currently have right now?
... I didn't think so!
... Because you begin to live your life based on your own decisions and what will truly and deeply fulfill you as a person in your life, NOT what other people think or have taught what is best for you to do and/or be.
In the end... Its all up to you!
Sincerely,
Nicholas Finnegan
There is a big difference between what you think you want and what will truly and deeply fulfill you.
As you ponder about what your life is like right now, do you find that everything you have is a result of what you've been taught to chase after, or is it a result of what you chose and deeply want to be filled up with?
A dog needs an owner to teach it what to do, an owl is wise enough to figure it all out on it's own.
The owl is its own being. It studies carefully and awareness becomes expanded when a task needs to be completed, such as eating a small rabbit, a mouse and their favorite dish - skunk.
The dog rely's on an owner to be fed and cared for. It scurries around looking for food and picks up the scraps people leave behind, even if they know it isn't good for them, and most of the time aren't even aware of it in the long run.
The dog learns habits, where as the owl chooses and creates them!
Owls live in many places. Owls live in tree trunks, farms, in bushes, in forests. Sometimes owls live in old buildings, barns and even cactus's.
Dogs either sleep inside an owners house or stray outside in the cold. A few of them even get locked up in cages.
So...
As you begin to become as wise as the owl, you will find your sense of possibility and self beginning to expand. As a wiser person you will find you have complete choice to create whatever you want in life without limitation.
Once you adapt to this mindset (the mindset of individuality and wisdom) and begin to make this attitude more apparent for yourself in your life today... Would you still be living the life you currently have right now?
... I didn't think so!
... Because you begin to live your life based on your own decisions and what will truly and deeply fulfill you as a person in your life, NOT what other people think or have taught what is best for you to do and/or be.
In the end... Its all up to you!
Sincerely,
Nicholas Finnegan
Tuesday, May 23, 2017
Gaining Self-Confidence
Dear friend,
Next to self-esteem we would all like to feel an inner sense of gaining self-confidence. Many of us mix the attributes of self-esteem and confidence up, they are both uniquely different and they actually compliment each-other really well.
However this course is all about raising your confidence levels...
Now, there are generally three types of confidence:
- Performance confidence
- Self-confidence
- And Confidence in the company of others
Performance confidence is described as being really good at doing a particular activity or skill. This particular form of confidence usually comes from doing something over and over again so many times that it becomes easily to execute.
Depending on our tanisity levels, difficult tasks can be very easy to learn, where as others may find certain tasks requires more of an effort.
For example: For different people learning to fix a bike could be easier than learning to do a back hand-spring. Performance confidence comes with continuous practice, the more you practice doing something the more you will find inner self-assurance beginning to grow as tasks become more easy to do.
Now, Self-confidence and inner self-assurance is described as what you believe you are capable of, it is that inner sense of self confidence based on how high you believe your level of being able to feel confident within yourself can rise.
For example: If you feel confident about your skills and capability to learn and grow you are more likely to feel more secure within yourself and move through the world with more ease based on the situations you find yourself. and that will continue to grow as you do!
Self-confidence complements performance confidence really well. The more reasons and evidence you have for why you should feel more confident within yourself the more confident you are likely to feel as you do new things! In a sense its a one-way street, there is no opposing traffic!
And last but not least, Confidence in Company! Which is an extension of self-confidence and performance confidence, ultimately creates LIFE CONFIDENCE.
When you can learn to feel confident about your skills and communicate with others effectively, you gain a sense of free-er self-expression that is not thwarted by negative attacks or external circumstances. Your contribution to the world is 'just' and is energized by the display of your personality!
Events and situations are sometimes un-controllable but you can always rely on yourself to feel confident and express to others that a strong energy is always around to support them.
These 3 types of confidence(s) I have laid out for you display a great foundation you can start working on.
If you want to gain higher levels of confidence within yourself, trying something new performance-wise will allow you to do so, especially if its in an area of life you really want. Feeling more confident around others will help you to become more confident performance-wise, and feeling more confident performance-wise and social-wise will allow you to feel more confident about yourself. And thus the spiral goes round and around like a formula 1 racing wheel.
To build more overall confidence you should seek out to practice in each of these areas to build more confidence, notice your growing progress and start in which ever area feel right for you!
So your task for today is to write down two things you would like to improve your confidence in, in each of the three areas we have been discussing.
What do you want to feel more self confidence about?
Self-confidence
1.
2.
Which area in life to you want to perform better in?
Performance confidence
1.
2.
In which types of social situations do you want to be at your absolute best?
Confidence in company
1.
2.
Soon I will show you some extra techniques, tips and exercises you can do to speed up this process of building overall LIFE CONFIDENCE and more ease in a way that allows you to become stronger and happier today about your life!
Do and feel in the ways you really want to feel about yourself and expand this into your daily life.
All the best,
Nicholas Finnegan
Next to self-esteem we would all like to feel an inner sense of gaining self-confidence. Many of us mix the attributes of self-esteem and confidence up, they are both uniquely different and they actually compliment each-other really well.
However this course is all about raising your confidence levels...
Now, there are generally three types of confidence:
- Performance confidence
- Self-confidence
- And Confidence in the company of others
Performance confidence is described as being really good at doing a particular activity or skill. This particular form of confidence usually comes from doing something over and over again so many times that it becomes easily to execute.
Depending on our tanisity levels, difficult tasks can be very easy to learn, where as others may find certain tasks requires more of an effort.
For example: For different people learning to fix a bike could be easier than learning to do a back hand-spring. Performance confidence comes with continuous practice, the more you practice doing something the more you will find inner self-assurance beginning to grow as tasks become more easy to do.
Now, Self-confidence and inner self-assurance is described as what you believe you are capable of, it is that inner sense of self confidence based on how high you believe your level of being able to feel confident within yourself can rise.
For example: If you feel confident about your skills and capability to learn and grow you are more likely to feel more secure within yourself and move through the world with more ease based on the situations you find yourself. and that will continue to grow as you do!
Self-confidence complements performance confidence really well. The more reasons and evidence you have for why you should feel more confident within yourself the more confident you are likely to feel as you do new things! In a sense its a one-way street, there is no opposing traffic!
And last but not least, Confidence in Company! Which is an extension of self-confidence and performance confidence, ultimately creates LIFE CONFIDENCE.
When you can learn to feel confident about your skills and communicate with others effectively, you gain a sense of free-er self-expression that is not thwarted by negative attacks or external circumstances. Your contribution to the world is 'just' and is energized by the display of your personality!
Events and situations are sometimes un-controllable but you can always rely on yourself to feel confident and express to others that a strong energy is always around to support them.
These 3 types of confidence(s) I have laid out for you display a great foundation you can start working on.
If you want to gain higher levels of confidence within yourself, trying something new performance-wise will allow you to do so, especially if its in an area of life you really want. Feeling more confident around others will help you to become more confident performance-wise, and feeling more confident performance-wise and social-wise will allow you to feel more confident about yourself. And thus the spiral goes round and around like a formula 1 racing wheel.
To build more overall confidence you should seek out to practice in each of these areas to build more confidence, notice your growing progress and start in which ever area feel right for you!
So your task for today is to write down two things you would like to improve your confidence in, in each of the three areas we have been discussing.
What do you want to feel more self confidence about?
Self-confidence
1.
2.
Which area in life to you want to perform better in?
Performance confidence
1.
2.
In which types of social situations do you want to be at your absolute best?
Confidence in company
1.
2.
Soon I will show you some extra techniques, tips and exercises you can do to speed up this process of building overall LIFE CONFIDENCE and more ease in a way that allows you to become stronger and happier today about your life!
Do and feel in the ways you really want to feel about yourself and expand this into your daily life.
All the best,
Nicholas Finnegan
Saturday, September 5, 2009
Hypnotic Beliefs!
Hello friends,
Below is a FREE ebook and audio with tools you can use to help build stronger positive beliefs as soon as possible.
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. For More FREE Success Audio's and Ebooks Go Here...
Below is a FREE ebook and audio with tools you can use to help build stronger positive beliefs as soon as possible.
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. For More FREE Success Audio's and Ebooks Go Here...
Thursday, August 6, 2009
3 Types Of Men?
Hello,
There are genuinely 3 types of men.. find out which one you are by watching this video...
Are you the Nice Guy? The Bad Guy Or The Good Guy??
Kezia explains all 3 types of guys and their individual influence on the types of women they attract...
Press Play Below...
The most seductive guy you want to be is the good guy. This is the type of guy who has standards, who isn't afraid to say no and who is secure when finding emotionally healthy women.
Hope you enjoyed this video... I did ! :)
More info about sexual magnetism soon.
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Join me and Kezia on facebook here:
Nicholas Facebook
There are genuinely 3 types of men.. find out which one you are by watching this video...
Are you the Nice Guy? The Bad Guy Or The Good Guy??
Kezia explains all 3 types of guys and their individual influence on the types of women they attract...
Press Play Below...
The most seductive guy you want to be is the good guy. This is the type of guy who has standards, who isn't afraid to say no and who is secure when finding emotionally healthy women.
Hope you enjoyed this video... I did ! :)
More info about sexual magnetism soon.
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Join me and Kezia on facebook here:
Nicholas Facebook
Friday, July 17, 2009
Stealth Energy and The Alpha Warrior!
Hi folks,
The big thing that keeps people from staying secure and composed is self restrictions and hesitancy.
What are they?
They are manifestations of compressed energy that are stuck or held within the body in a way that doesn't help you to move forward.
In other words, if you feel clamped down, unworthy, pitiful or weak - you are actually investing in these emotions and that's why you feel stuck!
These negative investments tend to block you from experiencing feelings of freedom, happiness, joy and abundance!
Blockages cause struggle and cause you to fight with yourself!
Have you ever been in a state of frustration? It may have felt like you were trying to drive forward with something else pulling you back at the same time.
On the other side of the spectrum - you also have been so excited about going on holiday that all your hesitations released and you where expansive in your emotions.
All positive emotions expand, where as negative emotions keep people restricted from experiencing the true potential of what their emotions can fully allow them to experience...
Alpha males and Alpha Females are un-hindered from restrictions.
Energy that continuous to flow and extend is a true display of alpha male and females... they have no restrictions in the possibility and potential they can manifest!
When you learn how to manifest Alpha energy, you'll become smooth within yourself and your life; you'll naturally participate in a constant flow success, with a strong reciliance that diminishes anything that tried to hold you back.
Think of this energy as white smoke testing the aero dynamics of a car... no matter what car you use, the smoke continuous to adapt to whatever shape it needs to gain it's way!
The whole idea is to jump into this stream of resourcefulness and smoothly flow in it's continuous abundance.
Once you change your investments into something positive, you'll use that same investment you were once using to make yourself feel bad, to make yourself feel good instead!
In other words, you'll reap greater rewards out of your life with the exact same energy you were using to make you feel stuck, but this time, you'll learn to use that exact same energy to make yourself feel good!
You Will Redirect Your Negative Energy To Expand It!
Don't waste your energy on blockages anymore! Spend your energy in ways that allow you to feel good!
Time and energy is precious, be careful what directions your investing your energy towards because your spending your energy in directions regardless!
It's the investment within itself, that needs to be re-directed into a better direction, so you spend more time and energy investing in what works from now on....
You'll see exactly how you can use negative energy to refine it into Alpha energy with the Stealth Warrior process ...
Releasing Alpha energy and stealth energy is the core foundation of Stealth Warrior as it shows you to move through the world with finesse and power!
More to come in the next email!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Go Here To Be Notified When Stealth Warrior Launches and also receive FREE Course Updates!
P.P.S. Hypnotic Confidence is still being ordered like crazy because it is - by far, the most powerful charisma enhancer on the net! Get your's by going Here...
The big thing that keeps people from staying secure and composed is self restrictions and hesitancy.
What are they?
They are manifestations of compressed energy that are stuck or held within the body in a way that doesn't help you to move forward.
In other words, if you feel clamped down, unworthy, pitiful or weak - you are actually investing in these emotions and that's why you feel stuck!
These negative investments tend to block you from experiencing feelings of freedom, happiness, joy and abundance!
Blockages cause struggle and cause you to fight with yourself!
Have you ever been in a state of frustration? It may have felt like you were trying to drive forward with something else pulling you back at the same time.
On the other side of the spectrum - you also have been so excited about going on holiday that all your hesitations released and you where expansive in your emotions.
All positive emotions expand, where as negative emotions keep people restricted from experiencing the true potential of what their emotions can fully allow them to experience...
Alpha males and Alpha Females are un-hindered from restrictions.
Energy that continuous to flow and extend is a true display of alpha male and females... they have no restrictions in the possibility and potential they can manifest!
When you learn how to manifest Alpha energy, you'll become smooth within yourself and your life; you'll naturally participate in a constant flow success, with a strong reciliance that diminishes anything that tried to hold you back.
Think of this energy as white smoke testing the aero dynamics of a car... no matter what car you use, the smoke continuous to adapt to whatever shape it needs to gain it's way!
The whole idea is to jump into this stream of resourcefulness and smoothly flow in it's continuous abundance.
Once you change your investments into something positive, you'll use that same investment you were once using to make yourself feel bad, to make yourself feel good instead!
In other words, you'll reap greater rewards out of your life with the exact same energy you were using to make you feel stuck, but this time, you'll learn to use that exact same energy to make yourself feel good!
You Will Redirect Your Negative Energy To Expand It!
Don't waste your energy on blockages anymore! Spend your energy in ways that allow you to feel good!
Time and energy is precious, be careful what directions your investing your energy towards because your spending your energy in directions regardless!
It's the investment within itself, that needs to be re-directed into a better direction, so you spend more time and energy investing in what works from now on....
You'll see exactly how you can use negative energy to refine it into Alpha energy with the Stealth Warrior process ...
Releasing Alpha energy and stealth energy is the core foundation of Stealth Warrior as it shows you to move through the world with finesse and power!
More to come in the next email!
All The Best,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. Go Here To Be Notified When Stealth Warrior Launches and also receive FREE Course Updates!
P.P.S. Hypnotic Confidence is still being ordered like crazy because it is - by far, the most powerful charisma enhancer on the net! Get your's by going Here...
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